The Queen of Accountability is running wild out here....

Mister Breeze said:
I could ask do you hate MEN or not, cause it seems like you make a better case for being a male misandrist than me being a child/women hater.


Go back to my original quote. My profession has ZERO to do with my opinion about this subject, yet you couldn't help but to try to use that against me. That sounds personal to me.
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Mr B. Fam, as an educator, I'll assume you see a lot of kids from homes that don't have positive male influences.

I'll also assume that you believe or may have even experienced a young man or young lady who took to a certain teacher as a positive influence.

While they aren't a step parent to that child, they are operating as a positive influence in that kids life. Being a step parent to a kid that's not yours isn't a death sentence. And yes, you are entitled to your preferences to date women that don't have kids. Nothing wrong with that at all. But for you to say the shit that you said, being an educator who could possibly have positive influence on a young person I felt was distasteful af
 
SeaSnake said:
If a lot of women don’t feel comfortable around most men they don’t know and you have said numerous times women need to do what they can to protect themselves not wanting to be around a strange man seems to make sense.

Incel and redpill are the same vein to me. Like FBA and ados. Or KKK and skinheads. Yea may sound different but saying the same shit
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Incels and red pill dudes are not the same, regardless of whether you feel that way or not.
 
The Lonious Monk said:
lol So, in your mind being around a bear is a reasonable alternative for protection?

Once again, incels =/= redpill. Red pill is basically a philosophy that says aspects of society are currently constructed in a way that benefits women but hurts men. Incels are dudes that are mad because they can't get pussy. A lot of incels flock to red pill content because it offers them an excuse for why they fail with women. That doesn't mean you can just attach every crazy thing incels do to red pill content. It also doesn't mean you can reduce red pill content down to woman hating. For example, a topic most red pill creators touch on is the high male suicide rate in the country. Sure, the misogynists try to blame that on women, but the more reasonable red pillers take the stance that our systems just overlook the needs of males and make light of the problems males face.

I'll say it again, some dudes on the net that bitch because they think the world was a better place when women were second class citizens are not the same as chicks that demonize, dehumanize, and wish death on men.
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This shit here.

Incels believe there's nothing they can do about why they can't get pussy and because of this, they loathe if not outright hate the very women they seek. Incels are the dudes most prone to being violent just as their hero, Elliot Rodger, once did.

Red pill niggas say "Aiight... These broads ain't fuckin' with me. Lemme hit the gym, get my money up, bathe, shave/trim my beard, style my hair, throw on some decent clothes, a nice scent, and that will improve my chances with the ladies". These dudes, while they still hold a level of resentment for how society is structured, believe they can move up in their social standings and get the women they desire.
 
AP3.0 said:
Mr B. Fam, as an educator, I'll assume you see a lot of kids from homes that don't have positive male influences.

I'll also assume that you believe or may have even experienced a young man or young lady who took to a certain teacher as a positive influence.

While they aren't a step parent to that child, they are operating as a positive influence in that kids life. Being a step parent to a kid that's not yours isn't a death sentence. And yes, you are entitled to your preferences to date women that don't have kids. Nothing wrong with that at all. But for you to say the shit that you said, being an educator who could possibly have positive influence on a young person I felt was distasteful af
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I don't have a dog in this fight. But as a nigga on the outside looking in, this is a great summation of the issue.

You said the following @Mister Breeze...
Mister Breeze said:
Because it’s for suckas.

Putting your time, energy, and money into a kid that’s not yours, that can use that “you ain’t my dad” line when shit gets too real, and that the mom can get up and roll at anytime, take the kid, and leave, KNOWING you’ve put in effort to bond with the kid…..yeah…

That’s sucker shit.
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As an educator...I'm CERTAIN that you've put your time, energy, and money into a kid that wasn't yours. So to hear you say that it's for suckers seems a bit strange and counterintuitive to people. And if you've never done that and feel that doing so if for suckers, then the fact that you're in a career that often REQUIRES you to put time, energy and money into kids that aren't yours, is off-putting to people.

And it seems weird and disingenuous to pretend that anytime someone points it out, that they just don't like you or have an issue with you.
 
mryounggun said:
I don't have a dog in this fight. But as a nigga on the outside looking in, this is a great summation of the issue.

You said the following @Mister Breeze...


As an educator...I'm CERTAIN that you've put your time, energy, and money into a kid that wasn't yours. So to hear you say that it's for suckers seems a bit strange and counterintuitive to people. And if you've never done that and feel that doing so if for suckers, then the fact that you're in a career that often REQUIRES you to put time, energy and money into kids that aren't yours, is off-putting to people.

And it seems weird and disingenuous to pretend that anytime someone points it out, that they just don't like you or have an issue with you.
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mryounggun said:
I don't have a dog in this fight. But as a nigga on the outside looking in, this is a great summation of the issue.

You said the following @Mister Breeze...


As an educator...I'm CERTAIN that you've put your time, energy, and money into a kid that wasn't yours. So to hear you say that it's for suckers seems a bit strange and counterintuitive to people. And if you've never done that and feel that doing so if for suckers, then the fact that you're in a career that often REQUIRES you to put time, energy and money into kids that aren't yours, is off-putting to people.

And it seems weird and disingenuous to pretend that anytime someone points it out, that they just don't like you or have an issue with you.
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1) Two different scenarios. Being an educator is a shit-ton different from being a PARENT. Being an educator is a 8-3, 8-4 job, but they go AWAY from you after that, and it’s only for a few years while they’re in the same school you work at.
Parenting is 24/7/365/insert xxx years here, and you don’t get paid for it. In fact, quite the opposite….where you SPEND MONEY to be a parent. To feed, clothe, house a kid that’s not even your own DNA. Nah. It’s no good, no bueno, and your equivalence was super false.

2) Like I’ve said dozens of times, if your first reaction to anything I say that you don’t agree with is to attack my career, and not whatever point I made, THAT’s when it sounds personal. You don’t like my comment, fine. Attack the MESSAGE, not the MESSENGER.
 
Mister Breeze said:
1) Two different scenarios. Being an educator is a shit-ton different from being a PARENT. Being an educator is a 8-3, 8-4 job, but they go AWAY from you after that, and it’s only for a few years while they’re in the same school you work at.
Parenting is 24/7/365/insert xxx years here, and you don’t get paid for it. In fact, quite the opposite….where you SPEND MONEY to be a parent. To feed, clothe, house a kid that’s not even your own DNA. Nah. It’s no good, no bueno, and your equivalence was super false.

2) Like I’ve said dozens of times, if your first reaction to anything I say that you don’t agree with is to attack my career, and not whatever point I made, THAT’s when it sounds personal. You don’t like my comment, fine. Attack the MESSAGE, not the MESSENGER.
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You can be so obtuse.. Got damn.. Talk about missing the mark completely
 
Coach choked a kid out on the bus because he got really invested in one of his players lives and the kid bucked in him... And this dude who couldn't handle a child he was tryna help out bucking on him snapped and put both hands on this child's neck and squeezed.

Kids can often be ungrateful. It's a part of life.. They push boundaries, they're naturally rebellious. And their hormones often make controlling emotions difficult and they will act out.

I said all that to say, if you can't handle a child being ungrateful without crashing the fuck out.... Yeah, don't be a step dad... Kids gonna do that shit.


Same goes for teachers and coaches.. I'll discipline my child if he's being disrespectful.... But you gotta watch these niggaz who think they positive role models to fatherless kids.... Cuz these niggaz be the worst.

Y'all be safe out here
 
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