The woman in the video is useless
In my experience when I've shot first that man never became the pursuer. They just wanted to be chased....
Very much this. Some men feel like they don't have to put in much effort if you make your interest known first.
My boys use to always give me shit because there were some fine ones that loved my dirty draws back in college but I’d drop them for the smallest thing. I used to always quote PAC’s line, “Hate to say I’m sleazy but tease me, I don’t want it if it’s that easy.”
You might be onto something here...
It's not insecurity, it's caution.
A bit of this but mostly that's just the nature of dating. Women have a higher chance to getting a yes but anything afterwards is gonna be the same if he had approached her basically. You gotta have some game or special to really make it work for you consistently. The key difference is that women at least put themselves in a position to get the nigga they want before the next woman does and it saves time. Nigga acting weird afterwards? Just take it as an opportunity to dust off the skills and cut him off. Simple as that.
