Who said anything about you agreeing with my analogy. The problem isn't whether you agree with it or not. The problem is you're not even addressing the substance of the analogy. You're criticizing the analogy for a comparison that the analogy doesn't even make. Again, there was no comparison between gangbangers and assault victims. Analogies are built on parallelisms not direct comparisons. If you can't understand that, I don't know what to tell you. I'm not arrogant just because I understand how figurative language devices work and you don't.
The rest of your post is weird. You're conflating online discussions about a topic with attempts to help victims. Nobody in this topic (even her defenders) is trying to help Cassie. When I say she should be held accountable that doesn't mean I believe I should go to her crib and have three dudes call her a whore because of what she did. I don't know. The way you're looking at this is goofy as hell. Who actually cares about some and doesn't eventually confront them about their decision making if that decision making is constantly putting them in a bad position?