Only you know your intentions. All I'm saying is that i can see the how in why it's read a certain way. Don't even mean I agree with it. I just can see how that conclusion could be drawn. I think what you're missing is that folks ain't looking for the big racism moments. It's what alot of non Black people in general have tried to downplay which is the microagression type shit. And that can cover a whole range of things that quite frankly you simply would never be aware of unless pointed out to you.
You also don't always admit when you're wrong. Sometimes you'll just resort to being condescending as you did with the Clay Travis shit. You never admitted "oh I was wrong." You kept trying to tie what was made and explained to you to be a specifically separate post into some more shit about covid and free speech. Thats what I meant by you digging you. Once you get an idea you tend to stick with that even when told otherwise. Or even with the Spotify shit...you conceded but still had "Yea but what about covid? People still don't like Rogan for that" even admitting that was a small insignificant part of Black people reactions to him.
I think the reason you got grilled is simply because there's times quite frankly when a white person is being condescending towards a Black person it's always going to remind some Black folks of at least a tinge of racism. Is that your fault? No. And you can choose to ignore people reacting that way. That still doesn't mean they won't react like that though.
Also, and this is something many people seem to have a problem with, but there's nothing wrong sometimes with people agreeing on something. There doesn't always need to be some counter take to whatever is being discussed. If something is being done that's fucked up then there's no need always say something about what another person or group does. Just acknowledge what's fucked up or don't and keep it pushing. But when you consistently wanna play the contrarion role then you're gonna get people thinking you're willing to defend some wild shit