devlyn
New Member
So thoughts...your partner's view on things has possibly changed on things that you both had talked about before. Such as kids, marriage, jobs, moving to another state, living together, buying a house, etc... you get the point.
But they've never told you that their view on certain matters has changed or evolved from what it was in the past. Not saying it went to the negative, it just isn't the same anymore. It could be because they saw a friend marriage deteriorate. or a family's member child die.
But they haven't discuss that view point with you. And if the topic is brought up or anything they deflect, possibly not knowing how to speak on the subject with you. Your partner knows how you feel on certain things. And now it maybe getting to a point where you are lost and uncertain what to do.
How to you get them to be upfront with you? Everything is fine in your guys relationship besides their ability for them to talk to you? They are afraid of losing you... But the avoidance has got you going crazy to the point that if it continues They may lose you. Speaking to someone may help them. But they most likely won't. Where do you go from here?
But they've never told you that their view on certain matters has changed or evolved from what it was in the past. Not saying it went to the negative, it just isn't the same anymore. It could be because they saw a friend marriage deteriorate. or a family's member child die.
But they haven't discuss that view point with you. And if the topic is brought up or anything they deflect, possibly not knowing how to speak on the subject with you. Your partner knows how you feel on certain things. And now it maybe getting to a point where you are lost and uncertain what to do.
How to you get them to be upfront with you? Everything is fine in your guys relationship besides their ability for them to talk to you? They are afraid of losing you... But the avoidance has got you going crazy to the point that if it continues They may lose you. Speaking to someone may help them. But they most likely won't. Where do you go from here?