PlantainChips
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How did you kick them to the curb? Did you tell them no gently or just laugh in their face?
I just leave them on read But I don’t play those games with men cos they are always looking for a new way to play games with you and see if you are stupid enough to let them back in.I'm a friendly person, and I'm on good terms with everybody I ever dealt with on all levels. So I'm always pleasant and nice to everybody that hits me up.
It's normally just a conversation. Sometimes I'm even invite them to meet me at my job for a drink or two to catch up... But I always make it cheat I I'm very happy with my wife and life. So they never reveal any intentions if they were there.
I pride myself in being that guy people just wanna be friends with. I like giving off that vibe.
Shit that's how I got my pet turtle. An ex saw me being silly about a dead turtle I found and she got me two of them the next week her cousin was about to give away
That was fast.A little over a month ago. Now, I’m pregnant with his baby.
For who?That was fast.
For who?
That happens soooooo much.It was ill how many exes and flings hit me up after we made the news of my engagement public.
I’ve been on the other side of this. Male friends who got engaged and WANTED me to be jealous. They start paying ME way more attention than their new fiancée and trying to engineer a love triangle when whole time IDGAF. In one case he was good friends with the guy I was seeing. In another case he kept being too physical, hugging me, touching me and trying to make me focus on the ring he bought his fiancée.It was ill how many exes and flings hit me up after we made the news of my engagement public.
Anytime anyone willingly asks to be your side chick, that’s a red flag that that person isn’t worth shitAll the damn time.
All are ok with being a side chick.
But nah I’m good. I don’t want to invest time on shit with a poor return anymore.
Smh. Mfers are wild.I’ve been on the other side of this. Male friends who got engaged and WANTED me to be jealous. They start paying ME way more attention than their new fiancée and trying to engineer a love triangle when whole time IDGAF. In one case he was good friends with the guy I was seeing. In another case he kept being too physical, hugging me, touching me and trying to make me focus on the ring he bought his fiancée.
I just figured they were insecure bitches and felt sorry for their fiancées, who they clearly were just using to boost their ego.
Yup. While his fiancée was showing off her ring to everyone on the DAY they got engaged, he kept his attention on me the entire night. Then he tried to portray me as though I was chasing after him when he kept chasing me and I was ignoring him. Unsurprisingly, he had a bad relationship with his dad, so I’m guessing he has a lot of issues.Smh. Mfers are wild.
Sheesh. You dodged a bulletYup. While his fiancée was showing off her ring to everyone on the DAY they got engaged, he kept his attention on me the entire night. Then he tried to portray me as though I was chasing after him when he kept chasing me and I was ignoring him. Unsurprisingly, he had a bad relationship with his dad, so I’m guessing he has a lot of issues.
I never even dated the guy. I stopped talking to him after that though and never talked to his wife. But yes he was a psychoSheesh. You dodged a bullet
I'm a friendly person, and I'm on good terms with everybody I ever dealt with on all levels. So I'm always pleasant and nice to everybody that hits me up.
It's normally just a conversation. Sometimes I'm even invite them to meet me at my job for a drink or two to catch up... But I always make it cheat I'm very happy with my wife and life. So they never reveal any intentions if they were there.
I pride myself in being that guy people just wanna be friends with. I like giving off that vibe.
Shit that's how I got my pet turtle. An ex saw me being silly about a dead turtle I found and she got me two of them the next week her cousin was about to give away