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Chi-Town B said:
There should have been a grace period before he started messing with his friend's wife. Sam's body was probably still warm before he ran up in her
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Bruh was 20… she was in her 30s
Grace period yes.

But we placing this all on the shoulders of a man that couldn’t even marry her until he was 21?

Imagine if a 30 yr old man tried to marry a 20 yr old woman and let her wear the dead wife’s clothes ti the funeral.

Wrong is wrong
 
Thursday I by far had one of the WORST fish sandwiches ever.

I'll stick to the two spots I like in this city that knows how to cook good fish.
 
Dint care what no one says…this is bitch shit



Saying this my son now is ho shit. Regardless of how the father is.
 
DOS_patos said:
Dint care what no one says…this is bitch shit



Saying this my son now is ho shit. Regardless of how the father is.
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Meh...I mean if he hasn't been in his son's life up until that time...I can understand. Sorta. Also if that's their crib, then yeah. I understand why he ain't coming in.

BUT...if he's been tryin to be in his life...then you gotta at least give him a chance. B/c at the end of the day, it's gonna be up to the SON to decide if he wants a relationship wit his bio father. Either now or when he gets older.

Me personally...I can't see myself denying another man to have a relationship wit their child. Unless he's a detriment to that child's safety...then I rather he and that child have a relationship. That's if the child wants to. But I'm can't sit there and say "No. He's my child now." That...that doesn't sit right with me. Its triggering.

I'd definitely tell the muthafucca to do better tho.
 
IP360 said:



Meh...I mean if he hasn't been in his son's life up until that time...I can understand. Sorta. Also if that's their crib, then yeah. I understand why he ain't coming in.

BUT...if he's been tryin to be in his life...then you gotta at least give him a chance. B/c at the end of the day, it's gonna be up to the SON to decide if he wants a relationship wit his bio father. Either now or when he gets older.

Me personally...I can't see myself denying another man to have a relationship wit their child. Unless he's a detriment to that child's safety...then I rather he and that child have a relationship. That's if the child wants to. But I'm can't sit there and say "No. He's my child now." That...that doesn't sit right with me. Its triggering.

I'd definitely tell the muthafucca to do better tho.
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All true and I agree.
We don’t know if the mom was keeping him away or lion. But we also don’t know dudes side.
Even if he’s a deadbeat, him showing up should be embraced but not liked for the sake of the child. He may have stumbled but that doesn’t mean he’s lost forever.

Niggas gotta stop that type behavior. Both of them.
 
DOS_patos said:
All true and I agree.
We don’t know if the mom was keeping him away or lion. But we also don’t know dudes side.
Even if he’s a deadbeat, him showing up should be embraced but not liked for the sake of the child. He may have stumbled but that doesn’t mean he’s lost forever.

Niggas gotta stop that type behavior. Both of them.
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if a parent has been gone for many years but once to come back, the relationship has to be built from scratch. Meaning that deadbeat parent shouldnt just show up. Gotta call first.

Pop ups are never good because of emotions. Call first to get those emotions out first. Pop ups are never good I hated when one of my friends use to do that shit. It means that you think the other person's is required to drop what they are doing and give you attention.
 
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