Effect of Black Men Dating Outside Their Race

[Allergens]

I actually stop following that bitch, cause I hit her up and asked her..with all the positivity your getting in the comments, why are you focused on the negativity..she hit me back, said that’s a good point..

I shit you not, an hour later she was doing the same shit with a another picture.

 

[Goldie]

What's your first thought when you see an interracial couple? More specifically, a black dude wit a white girl?

Where do i begin? lol

Man I aint gonna bash people for what they like, but I will say it's not conducive to betterment of the black community and black household, which is the foundation of everything.

 

[Playmaker88]

What's your first thought when you see an interracial couple? More specifically, a black dude wit a white girl?

i wonder if peoples choices are cuz thats what they like or is it because something they hate or insecure about.. shit dont change my day either way but i be wondering because its alot of bullshit on there false pride and self hate. especially when you see the lot of them with chicks that look like the michelin man. But id never judge someones significant other based on anything but their character.. aside from that dynamic.


I gotta disagree with @Goldie on the black family or whatever you were tryin to infer.. about niggas dating outside of the race...and how it correlates t the black family and community for obvious reasons

 

[Goldie]

i wonder if peoples choices are cuz thats what they like or is it because something they hate or insecure about.. shit dont change my day either way but i be wondering because its alot of bullshit on there false pride and self hate. especially when you see the lot of them with chicks that look like the michelin man. But id never judge someones significant other based on anything but their character.. aside from that dynamic.


I gotta disagree with @Goldie on the black family or whatever you were tryin to infer.. about niggas dating outside of the race...and how it correlates t the black family and community for obvious reasons

If Kanye were to get shot and die, where (which family) do u think all his money would go to?

 

[Like_Water]

Where do i begin? lol

Man I aint gonna bash people for what they like, but I will say it's not conducive to betterment of the black community and black household, which is the foundation of everything.

Not gon lie. First thought is "sellout". And the reason why is because of how important it is to me that we subscribe to the line of thinking that you just stated.

And I hate when I'm out and see that one black high school kid with a buncha white kids. I'm like, "Your parents ain't tell you you look like a token and those muthafuckas are gonna flip on you the first chance they get?"

*shrugs* Maybe I'm the only one who thinks like that. Lol.

 

[Goldie]

DO u think this is conducive to the black community?

 

[Playmaker88]

If Kanye were to get shot and die, where (which family) do u think all his money would go to?

his kid.. what the fuck does money have to do with the strength, solidarity and togetherness and solid ground of black family though

 

[The Lonious Monk]

This is like saying "cops aren't bad, there's a bunch of good cops out there" , wtf does there being "thirsty" niggas out here gotta do with the growing number of coon niggas in this world. U can look at what took place in the ABW store last night and see black women are noticing the fuck shit.


She wasn't saying "oh i can't get a man", she was saying it's fucked up she has to question if a nigga is even into black women.


It's a growing pattern on here of niggas loving to come to the rescue of white people and coon activity and more than anything shitting on a black woman.

With all due respect, get the fuck outta here. You're just perpetuating bullshit. Are there dudes out there that date outside of their race when they are just wildin' and trying to get some? Yes, the same can be said for males (and females) of all races. However, when you look at the actual data, the majority of black men (>85%) marry black women. So this idea that some large number of black men are out there trying to wife white women is bullshit. There is a problem with black love in the sense that marriage and long term relationships in general are falling off among black people, but that can't be explained by simply blaming it on black men chasing white women. That's just more anti-black man propaganda right up there with the lie that black men take no part in raising their kids. You as a black man should be ashamed of running with that shit.

You talking about coon activity. Well if dividing and conquering the black race is the goal of white supremacy, what would you call perpetuating the type of lies put in place to accomplish that goal but cooning? And nobody was attacking this woman. I just don't really buy what she's selling. Maybe she is from a place that doesn't have many black people, I don't know. But I've lived in places with large black populations all my life, and there is no way in hell this chick is going to social events, venues, areas with lots of black males present and she can't find dudes that are genuinely and almost exclusively interested in black women. If that's her claim, she's lying or simply blind to what's out there.

 

[Goldie]

his kid.. what the fuck does money have to do with the strength, solidarity and togetherness and solid ground of black family though

Nah, the shit would go to his wife and her family.


Similar to the UK and how family and lineage is damn near more important than money.


Let's say a nigga made walmart or mcdonalds or something. That shit would feed his kids, kid's kids, etc. 5 black generations down the line. But if he chooses to marry a white chick, that shit would feed 5 white generations down the line. It's simple logic.

 

[Playmaker88]

shitty niggas are more of a detriment than an integrated family..and in spite of what i said its foolish to denigrate all interracial relationships.. and on top of that blame them for the breakdown or call them a detriment to the "community" no nigga the onus is on the people in the community to forge strong meaningful relationships built on all the good things that make families thrive ...

Shitty niggas fuck up the community dynamic period.

 

[Goldie]

That's like saying "it's stupid to blame cigarettes for cancer cuz there's other ways to get it" . Yes, "shitty niggas" fuck up the community TOO, but that doesn't mean marrying outside of your race is no longer an issue.

 

[Goldie]

With all due respect, get the fuck outta here. You're just perpetuating bullshit. Are there dudes out there that date outside of their race when they are just wildin' and trying to get some? Yes, the same can be said for males (and females) of all races. However, when you look at the actual data, the majority of black men (>85%) marry black women. So this idea that some large number of black men are out there trying to wife white women is bullshit. There is a problem with black love in the sense that marriage and long term relationships in general are falling off among black people, but that can't be explained by simply blaming it on black men chasing white women. That's just more anti-black man propaganda right up there with the lie that black men take no part in raising their kids. You as a black man should be ashamed of running with that shit.

You talking about coon activity. Well if dividing and conquering the black race is the goal of white supremacy, what would you call perpetuating the type of lies put in place to accomplish that goal but cooning? And nobody was attacking this woman. I just don't really buy what she's selling. Maybe she is from a place that doesn't have many black people, I don't know. But I've lived in places with large black populations all my life, and there is no way in hell this chick is going to social events, venues, areas with lots of black males present and she can't find dudes that are genuinely and almost exclusively interested in black women. If that's her claim, she's lying or simply blind to what's out there.

U do raise some good points, however what's the percentage of black men that even marry in 2018? I doubt 50% of the niggas on here are married and to determine who's dating who via stats is nearly impossible. I do think the percentage of black men AND women DATING outside of their race is higher than the stats are showcasing.

 

[Playmaker88]

That's like saying "it's stupid to blame cigarettes for cancer cuz there's other ways to get it" . Yes, "shitty niggas" fuck up the community TOO, but that doesn't mean marrying outside of your race is no longer an issue.

maybe its just me but i think the whole "baby mama" , baby daddy" situation that people find themselves in is at the top of the list.

forging meaningful real relationships with people that you have respect for is paramount.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

U do raise some good points, however what's the percentage of black men that even marry in 2018? I doubt 50% of the niggas on here are married and to determine who's dating who via stats is nearly impossible. I do think the percentage of black men AND women DATING outside of their race is higher than the stats are showcasing.

Agreed. Like I said, I think the decline of long term relationships in the black community is a problem. I believe in family. However, you talk to some of these niggas, and they don't believe in marriage period. They think its basically just a setup to tear men down. You can't pin that on interracial dating. Those niggas might be fucking white women, but they ain't wifing them just like they ain't wifing black women. If niggas is just out there fucking and not building families that will grow and strengthen the black community, then it doesn't matter who they are chasing. So once, again, you can't blame "cooning" for this problem. It's deeper than that.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Nah, the shit would go to his wife and her family.


Similar to the UK and how family and lineage is damn near more important than money.


Let's say a nigga made walmart or mcdonalds or something. That shit would feed his kids, kid's kids, etc. 5 black generations down the line. But if he chooses to marry a white chick, that shit would feed 5 white generations down the line. It's simple logic.

This is only true if the dumb nigga didn't leave a will. If he wanted to, he could break a little money off to his kids and donate the rest to organizations that benefit the black community.

 

[Goldie]

While I say it's not the biggest issue in the black community, i still do believe it's an issue. Niggas might not be wifing white chicks, but they're still chasing them at a high rate (the snow bunnie thread is one of the biggest on the site.... a black site). Niggas thirsting after white girls is definitely an epidemic.

 

[Goldie]

This is only true if the dumb nigga didn't leave a will. If he wanted to, he could break a little money off to his kids and donate the rest to organizations that benefit the black community.

If he's wifing white bitches , he aint leaving most of his money to niggas lol

 

[The Lonious Monk]

If he's wifing white bitches , he aint leaving most of his money to niggas lol

lol Why do you say that? You're like Umar Johnson. Ya'll run with some crazy generalizations when it comes to interracial relationships. In your mind, every black dude that winds up with a white woman did so because he wanted to escape the black community. It ain't really like that. Go look at some of those black activists from the 50s and 60s. Several of them wound up with white women. You think they stopped being about helping the black community just because they got white wives? Maybe you can explain it, but I'm not really sure where the basis of your claim that the man's money will go to white families for generations comes from. To me, it really depends on how the children are raised. If the mixed kids are raised closer to their black side, which most often is the case, and wind up marrying black people, how would the money they inherit wind up in the hands of whites?

 

[Northside7]

Horseshit

 

[Goldie]

lol Why do you say that? You're like Umar Johnson. Ya'll run with some crazy generalizations when it comes to interracial relationships. In your mind, every black dude that winds up with a white woman did so because he wanted to escape the black community. It ain't really like that. Go look at some of those black activists from the 50s and 60s. Several of them wound up with white women. You think they stopped being about helping the black community just because they got white wives? Maybe you can explain it, but I'm not really sure where the basis of your claim that the man's money will go to white families for generations comes from. To me, it really depends on how the children are raised. If the mixed kids are raised closer to their black side, which most often is the case, and wind up marrying black people, how would the money they inherit wind up in the hands of whites?

If anything, the assumption that a nigga will give most of his money to strangers is crazy lol You think Kanye will leave most of his money to youth of chicago? word? Knowing him he'll want to be buried with that shit.