Welcome To aBlackWeb

Register

Da Brat AND her wife decided to use a white sperm donor claiming a shortage of Black men in the sperm donor pool

The Lonious Monk said:
lol Saying everything has downsides is not a good way to respond to someone acknowledging a downside.

Women are entitled to make their own choice about how they reproduce. However, they are not entitled to a system being in play to supply them with anonymous sperm to suit their whims. That's not a natural right. It's something that society provides. And everybody has the right to question whether or not the society that we all live in should support certain things.

We all have to make life choices, and sometimes those choices mean sacrificing things that we may want. If going all in on a career means you never build the relationship with anyone of the opposite sex needed to have a child the normal way, then not having children might be the consequence of your actions. Lots of men are in that situation. There is no egg and uterus donor clinic for a man to go to. If he missed his window of opportunity he just has to eat that.

At the end of the day, women have the right to do what they want in this regard, but is that a good thing? I don't know. Again if you look at the numbers , lack of fathers (or father figures) is pretty bad for children and society as a whole. So should society contribute to allow that to happen, or should we instead encourage people to do a better of job of building relationships before procreation that will allow children to have the benefit of two parents that care about them?
Click to expand...

There actually are egg donors and women who are willing surrogates. If a man did want to become a single parent and can afford to do so he has those options as too. So those exists as well. And that system where women can just be provide with random sperm is called sex...so regardless of with or without an actual sperm clinic if women want to they can and will get pregnant should their bodies allow it. Society has just provided a safer and more efficient way to do it through sperm clinics. Regardless of what you think society should contribute to the reality is that people have been and will continue to be single parents. So to say things shouldn't be in place to allow those people to have the same as everyone else isn't a good thing
 
loud-ninja said:
Its wild that some of yall think they can find an acceptable donor down the street. Its hard to find a decent person to just be friends with. Dont know why yall think finding a decent person to have a kid with is easy.

Asking people in their circle is hard to do as well. Their friends might not want to do it.

Then people have a criteria of what kind of traits they want their child to have. The pool of donors gets lower as people put in their requirements.
Click to expand...

It's wild to see people argue on the one hand that folks should be more intentional about who they have kids by while also shitting on people being intentional on who they have a kid by.
 
BlackRain said:
Eboni K Williams is the perfect example of a problem alot of have. She listens to respond instead of listening to actually hear and understand.
Click to expand...
Doesnt seem like she'd trying to understand. Its more like she's just trying to argue her point. In some other video, was quoted that one time an ex told her "Eboni we arnt in the courtroom". Feel like that kinda hit the nail on the head. Everything is a battle shes trying to win no matter what.
 
No man should give away his ā€œseedā€ and not be in that childā€™s life

Thatā€™s why I donā€™t like this industry

Shrugs.
 
Disanthrope said:
Weasel.

Lets try again

The baby will be less black on purpose
Click to expand...

notice how im not resorting to personal attacks right? Coo.

What happens if the kid is "less black" according to you? You have no idea how this kid is going to turn out and just saying its wack that they are going to be "less black" How are you even defining blackness?
 
Inori said:
notice how im not resorting to personal attacks right? Coo.

What happens if the kid is "less black" according to you? You have no idea how this kid is going to turn out and just saying its wack that they are going to be "less black" How are you even defining blackness?
Click to expand...
Don't listen to that nigga yo

If he really cared about black babies he'd had one or 3 by now. He just wants to regulate what everyone is doing in they house while still being a heathen in his own
 
Inori said:
notice how im not resorting to personal attacks right? Coo.

What happens if the kid is "less black" according to you? You have no idea how this kid is going to turn out and just saying its wack that they are going to be "less black" How are you even defining blackness?
Click to expand...
Why does there have to be something happening?

Opting against a black donor is the problem itself.

The fact that you can't see that is also a problem

But as far as how the baby will turn out... Brat claimed she wanted a black donor but let her self hatred get in the way. So being born under those circumstances how the fuck do you think a half white baby raised by lesbians is gonna turn out?

Insert you playing stupid here ___
 
The sperm donor shit is complicated in general, then you having companies for marketing purposes advertising that people can further screen whatever donor they want, so they can possibly have the more desirable child they're looking to make.

Now you got short people who dont want sperm from someone they dont consider tall, got people who only want sperm from someone with a certain eye/hair color. And finally got people like Eboni who said she chose sperm from someone with a certain GBA and major.

This just like a bunch of other things where you have people super picky, complaining its hard to find their demands.
 
BlackRain said:
There actually are egg donors and women who are willing surrogates. If a man did want to become a single parent and can afford to do so he has those options as too. So those exists as well. And that system where women can just be provide with random sperm is called sex...so regardless of with or without an actual sperm clinic if women want to they can and will get pregnant should their bodies allow it. Society has just provided a safer and more efficient way to do it through sperm clinics. Regardless of what you think society should contribute to the reality is that people have been and will continue to be single parents. So to say things shouldn't be in place to allow those people to have the same as everyone else isn't a good thing
Click to expand...

Again, no one is saying that Eboni Williams and women like her shouldn't have children. What's being said is that society providing them a means of creating children without putting in the work that natural means of child creating necessitate might not be the best thing. Everything you just said only reinforces the fact that if sperm donor clinics didn't exist, people would have to interact with other willing parties to create children. That is very likely the best way for things to be done even if it's not the most convenient.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top