I can only go back to what I said about my pops a couple of pages back. My granddad wasn't there emotionally for my father and his siblings like he should have. So man dad did the same thing for the most part. He recognized later in life that he was wrong in certain areas.I really don’t get how you can’t provide emotionally fir your kids and act like it’s not gonna impact everything
That's not true at all.
He is dead according to her.
I mean since they stood on that while he was alive and could've changed things but didn't. Don't seem like the type to change just cause of his death.
If so hopefully he matched that energy and didn't leave them nothing ungrateful ass kids.I think he is dead tho
If so hopefully he matched that energy and didn't leave them nothing ungrateful ass kids.
You can make amends as long as the person is open to it. Them kids were not willing to give their father a chance despite everything else he did for them. You ask me, they're ungrateful assholes.
Maybe it's better that he's dead.
One could easily say had he been there to teach that emotional intelligence they would've been more open to see his flaws and forgive as opposed to returning the coldness they felt that got from him. The vast majority of the time how your kids treat you is a direct reflection on how they feel about how you raised them. So if all your kids are basically on some "fuck you" shit then somewhere along the line the parent dropped the ball severely.
Bet money they'll be the main ones pissed he let them out his will.
I mean as an adult and in the workforce...I think I'd be a lil bit more forgiving and understanding. Especially if he was the only breadwinner trying to provide for the family. I'd at least let him know why we're reacting the way we are.
But I can't see myself just outright shunning him. At the end of the day...he's still my father. He still provided for us. Yeah there may still be some emotional laspes...but again as an adult...Iike to think I'd be at a point where I understood.
Now if he was on some "Fucc yall kids! I gotta get this bread" type deal...then the resentment is warranted.
OR
Their MOTHER could have taught them at least a piece of that and maybe they would have been more compassionate towards the man that did everything he could to make sure they were fed, clothed, and had a roof over their heads.
Typically, it's the mother that provides more emotional support for the kids. Where was she during this?
OR
Their MOTHER could have taught them at least a piece of that and maybe they would have been more compassionate towards the man that did everything he could to make sure they were fed, clothed, and had a roof over their heads.
Typically, it's the mother that provides more emotional support for the kids. Where was she during this?
You can make amends as long as the person is open to it. Them kids were not willing to give their father a chance despite everything else he did for them. You ask me, they're ungrateful assholes.
Maybe it's better that he's dead.
If so hopefully he matched that energy and didn't leave them nothing ungrateful ass kids.
One could easily say had he been there to teach that emotional intelligence they would've been more open to see his flaws and forgive as opposed to returning the coldness they felt that got from him. The vast majority of the time how your kids treat you is a direct reflection on how they feel about how you raised them. So if all your kids are basically on some "fuck you" shit then somewhere along the line the parent dropped the ball severely.
Or he wasnt perfect.lol ungrateful cause he dropped the ball?