Fellas, Just Ask the ladies...

[Loquacious]

lol what is the thought process behind that n why do u no longer do it or what made u change

I used to like to see how far I could go but never liked how mad he would get.

Now, I don’t care enough.

 

[Meeks]

ladies do u all purposely provoke a man then get mad when it works?

Provoke a man to what? Be mad/upset at me or something?

 

[ChicagoFigure]

I used to like to see how far I could go but never liked how mad he would get.

Now, I don’t care enough.

how far u could go until what? what exactly were u testing him for...his patience? his naivete? his assertiveness? whether hes a pushover?

n did any outcome ever significantly change a relationship?

 

[ChicagoFigure]

Provoke a man to what? Be mad/upset at me or something?

yes, but purposely doing it even if there wasnt a problem to begin with

 

[Loquacious]

how far u could go until what? what exactly were u testing him for...his patience? his naivete? his assertiveness? whether hes a pushover?

n did any outcome ever significantly change a relationship?

How far I could go til he got mad. I was just trying to test him. Most times i was tryna have angry sex.

None of that significantly changed our relationship because i didn’t do it a lot. He eventually stopped paying my ass attention when he knew what I was doing.

 

[Meeks]

yes, but purposely doing it even if there wasnt a problem to begin with

Oh nah, I don't think so.
Hmm, yeah I don't really know if I did that. I probably have at some point though.

 

[ChicagoFigure]

How far I could go til he got mad. I was just trying to test him. Most times i was tryna have angry sex.

None of that significantly changed our relationship because i didn’t do it a lot. He eventually stopped paying my ass attention when he knew what I was doing.

and then u got mad anyway huh

the angry sex i get, at least theres a reward for both of u at the end

why test him tho? yall ladies mann

 

[Loquacious]

and then u got mad anyway huh

the angry sex i get, at least theres a reward for both of u at the end

why test him tho? yall ladies mann

It was fun.

Yes I did get mad tho.

 

[ChicagoFigure]

It was fun.

Yes I did get mad tho.

petty

so what advice u have for a guy who knows his girl is trying him for no reason?? play mad???

or deny her the dick?? whats more effective

 

[ChicagoFigure]

Oh nah, I don't think so.
Hmm, yeah I don't really know if I did that. I probably have at some point though.

u ever dealt with a dude that was more emotional than a chick u messed with?? n if so how did u handle that

 

[Loquacious]

petty

so what advice u have for a guy who knows his girl is trying him for no reason?? play mad???

or deny her the dick?? whats more effective

IGNORE and deny the penis. That will nip that shit in the bud.

 

[ChicagoFigure]

IGNORE and deny the penis. That will nip that shit in the bud.

send off smh

i gotta be careful with u

 

[Loquacious]

send off smh

i gotta be careful with u

I don’t play those games anymore.

 

[Goldie]

They all do that shit

 

[ChicagoFigure]

I don’t play those games anymore.

yea at least not until u find that special one i get it

 

[Loquacious]

yea at least not until u find that special one i get it

How you know I don’t have a special one?

 

[ChicagoFigure]

How you know I don’t have a special one?

cuz ur not playin them games u said it yourself

 

[Loquacious]

cuz ur not playin them games u said it yourself

I may not. I’m not playing the with the dude I’m with.

 

[Meeks]

u ever dealt with a dude that was more emotional than a chick u messed with?? n if so how did u handle that

I've dealt with a dude that was in tune with his emotions, definitely not more emotional than the chicks I've dated or anything like that. However, this dude I knew for a few years and me are pretty cool and he is very emotional. It is one of the most annoying things I've ever experienced. Like damn, can I be the chick? Smh.

 

[T_Rza]

Ladies:

When you give your number out to a guy that has asked for it in a respectful way ;;;;;


What's a good time frame you expect him to call?

The same day/night

The next day after he's gotten your number

2 days later after he's gotten your number
or right there on the spot when he get that shit :ha:

The next day.. I think that night/day it could seem like you just trying to open that Pandora's box (yup that's what I call it). So wait for it all to settle and then call.. Just my thinking. I can't speak for anyone else