come.... if you want

[Rubato]

Come if you want means I'm not making an special moves just cause you coming over here. So if you coming understand that there ain't nothing special happening tonight. I'm chilling and you gone be chilling. I ain't ordering shit, I ain't cleaning shit,.I ain't cooking shit..I'm chilling.

“I’m chillin but yea come thru” is the move if you not trying to plant seeds for an attitude

 

[Ghost313]

If I say “fall thru”, it’s no more talk

 

[Lord Nemesis]

Yeah, well if she constantly needs someone to do backflips at the mere thought of her presence then I ain’t the one for her anyway.

 

[Race Jones]

 

[Race Jones]

“if you want” is bullshit period

 

[AP2.5]

Why not just say, I'm coming over and don't leave anything to chance

 

[5th Letter]

“if you want” is bullshit period

If I don’t want someone over I’d just say so. So yeah come if you want...

 

[Race Jones]

 

[AP2.5]

If she can't be convinced then ok ??‍

 

[YoungKing123]

Men are so simple, that it kills these broads. He said come if you want, what more needs to be said?

 

[AP2.5]

Men are so simple, that it kills these broads. He said come if you want, what more needs to be said?

They want the conversation to go like this

Her: I was thinking about coming over

Him: oh that would be fantastic. I would really love that. I was just thinking about asking you to come over. I can cook. What would you like to eat? Don't tell me, I remember that time when you ordered the shrimp fettuccini with the merlot. I actually have a bottle I was saving for an occasion. Don't bring anything but your appetite. See you soon queen

 

[Meeks]

Right after the meme, a man broke it down and mfs on the thread made this a woman thing lmao.

Mfs are misogynistic as hell on this site ?

 

[Meeks]

And to be honest, save the extra shit.

“Yes, I want you to come over.”

So simple.

He knows she wants to come the fuck over, she wouldn’t have asked if she didn’t but when you respond with “sure you can come IF YOU WANT”, I’m going to scratch my head because why tf else would I ask? Do you want my company or not, it’s a yes or no.

 

[Mafuzzychef]

I didn’t ask for your company but I don’t mind it, it’s up to you ?

 

[ChicagoFigure]

This low key a "I'm not in an entertaining mood but still down to have u over" response.

At least for me.

 

[Race Jones]

Right after the meme, a man broke it down and mfs on the thread made this a woman thing lmao.

Mfs are misogynistic as hell on this site ?

Exactly! These niggas stay proving why they dont get no ass ????? just terrible

 

[Race Jones]

And to be honest, save the extra shit.

“Yes, I want you to come over.”

So simple.

He knows she wants to come the fuck over, she wouldn’t have asked if she didn’t but when you respond with “sure you can come IF YOU WANT”, I’m going to scratch my head because why tf else would I ask? Do you want my company or not, it’s a yes or no.

PERIOD!

 

[AP2.5]

And to be honest, save the extra shit.

“Yes, I want you to come over.”

So simple.

He knows she wants to come the fuck over, she wouldn’t have asked if she didn’t but when you respond with “sure you can come IF YOU WANT”, I’m going to scratch my head because why tf else would I ask? Do you want my company or not, it’s a yes or no.

You drink merlot Queen?

 

[Golan]

I can absolutely understand a woman's frustration from hearing this shit. Who doesn't want to feel needed, desired, in a relationship? I tell them flat out, "Yeah, I can't wait to see you", simple, easy, and plus it's (usually) the truth. Little breakdowns in communication like this can snowball into bigger shit over time. I've made the mistake of allowing that to happen too many times in the past. Accused of being too distant, cold, etc. In hindsight, they were right.

 

[Mafuzzychef]

I can absolutely understand a woman's frustration from hearing this shit. Who doesn't want to feel needed, desired, in a relationship? I tell them flat out, "Yeah, I can't wait to see you", simple, easy, and plus it's (usually) the truth. Little breakdowns in communication like this can snowball into bigger shit over time. I've made the mistake of allowing that to happen too many times in the past. Accused of being too distant, cold, etc. In hindsight, they were right.

We can all understand it bro

but you don’t have to overcompensate for her insecurities, her need to feel wanted by being overly affectionate and needy

what these new feminists say “come healed” ???