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Wrong or Right: Woman denies sex after date declines to buy her child's Happy Meal before going out

I'm confused. Is that man is dumb enough to think he can buy sex with a brikw card or is thay woman is thot enough to entice it for later blaming the man of sharing the same views she hold about sex in exhange of gratification and money?
 
AP21 said:
That's my thing, if I take her at face value, I don't think anyone is expected

But if you about to take this chick out on a first date, I'm assuming the bill gonna be near $80+. What's an extra $5 on your tab for the evening.

But if the chick was like, the weather dropping tonight and my lil girl outgrew her coat and I been running behind all day and haven't had a chance to go to the store to get her one, he takes her, and then they get up to the register and she looking at him, then yeah, I'm not comfortable with doing something like that the first time I met you
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Ok, so in the first part of the post, you are saying 'What's an extra $5?'...as if niggas issue is the money or how much. Niggas have already said that it has nothing to do with that.

Then later in the post, you said you you wouldn't buy her kid a coat. And I could be wrong, but I'm certain that you could afford that coat. Meaning that for you, it has nothing to do with the money or how much the coat costs. It's the principle and you're just not with it. So if you can understand THAT, I don't get why you can't apply that same logic to the happy meal.
 
a happy meal.

Dude couldn’t do that? That shit is easy and I would do that even if we just chilling and not bout to do something.

Dude is tripping and she felt it was a flaw so she acted accordingly
 
Weird all around. She's using his refusal as a test that he failed and isn't up to par for her standards. When her standards were to get ready for a date before she fed her child. She said she had the money but if that's the case tell the dude that the date will start late. She could have told him a later time and fed her daughter with her own money before he arrived.

She also said she offered to buy him something? Y'all going out to eat the fuck he want from McDonald's. Sounds like an empty gesture.

On the other hand he's probably looking at her like a beggar. The moment she said run me to McDonald's he was likely thinking that he was going to test her. He's looking at it like it's the first date and you begging for money. Begging for a $6 happy meal at that.

Rules of dating that both genders seem to agree on is that, the man picks up the woman and covers the expenses.(some women like to half the expense) there are no rules about accommodating children or personal problems. She would prefer that he step up, he would prefer she not beg or assume. She feels slighted, he probably felt disrespected/used.

I would have paid but that's just me I don't count it for or against anybody for something that happens on the 1st date. Anyone putting weight into this that early is a lunatic.
 
I didn't finish the video. So she admitted that it was a test?
Meh. It's $5 and you're making sure the kid eats at least. It puts points in your column if you want another shot at her ?‍♂️
 
mryounggun said:
Ok, so in the first part of the post, you are saying 'What's an extra $5?'...as if niggas issue is the money or how much. Niggas have already said that it has nothing to do with that.

Then later in the post, you said you you wouldn't buy her kid a coat. And I could be wrong, but I'm certain that you could afford that coat. Meaning that for you, it has nothing to do with the money or how much the coat costs. It's the principle and you're just not with it. So if you can understand THAT, I don't get why you can't apply that same logic to the happy meal.
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They don't equal the same in my personal book.
 
AP21 said:
They don't equal the same in my personal book.
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Oh, I agree. They ARE different. One is something vital needed to keep a child safe and healthy during the harsh winter climate. The other is a happy meal. But YOU said 'What's an extra $5?', cementing the fact that the only issue is the price.

See what I mean?

I don't disagree with you, in terms of McDonald's and a winter coat being different, But if we're going by YOUR logic, they aren't different at all. Because you can afford the McDonald's and you can also afford the winter coat. So why are those requests handled differently by you? BECAUSE IT ISNT'T ABOUT THE AMOUNT OF MONEY. IT'S ABOUT THE PRINCIPLE.
 
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An underrated part of now being a father is that I can (jokingly) call out women’s poor parenting decisions without hearing “look, if you not a parent you not gonna understand.” Nah...you need to do better.
 
You knew you were going on a date at x o’clock. You know your daughter has to eat. Priorities missing to me.

Its 6 dollars, but he has NO equity built into this woman or her child, but you want him to spend his money, time , and gas for a test, instead of getting to know the man through meaningful conversation. On top of all this I bet homie was footing the bill for wherever their date was taking place. She did homie a favor, cause this could be the broad you have to decision make with for life.
 
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