NeighborhoodNomad
the marathon continues........
This is a place to share some of your random relationship thoughts/thots, questions, concerns, and perspectives about any and everything dealing with relationships and sex.
The brightest lights cast the darkest shadowsI really admire Du and LadyDu's relationship/marriage. To me they're an excellent example of Black Love. These two are undeniable soul mates and they remind me of a young Ossie Davis & Ruby Dee.
I have a very busy schedule. Like all of my time is usually occupied. Usually if I want to do anything new I have to rearrange my day to make it happen. Like most of us I guess. But when I tell the ladies I've been meeting about the things I'm doing and how busy my schedule is, the first thing she always says is "are you gonna be able to make time for me?"
My response is always "of course" but when I hear that sentence I detach and only look at her as a (potential) fuck buddy and not relationship potential. In my mind, wifey/relationship potential would be thinking how she's gonna build with me, not how I'm gonna fit her into my schedule.
I'm beginning to realize that if you're not trying to build with me, then you're just another task.
But why would you do this, is it not a fair question? I mean how can you build anything if you don't know if someone has the time to do so? Why would I even put in effort with someone that may or may not have that time. Basically I would have to know how I would fit before I would even consider building
Always kiss your gf/bf, wife/husband goodnight.
Pick your battles.
But why would you do this, is it not a fair question? I mean how can you build anything if you don't know if someone has the time to do so? Why would I even put in effort with someone that may or may not have that time. Basically I would have to know how I would fit before I would even consider building
But why would you do this, is it not a fair question? I mean how can you build anything if you don't know if someone has the time to do so? Why would I even put in effort with someone that may or may not have that time. Basically I would have to know how I would fit before I would even consider building