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OPINION Does your opinion of someone you know change if you learn they have cheated on a S/O?

BNE said:
You can do it, just like I can tell you to go to the sewer with the rest of the vermin.

Talking about me is likely the best thing you'll achieve this week, when in reality you should focus on making enough to pay child support to 4 different households this month.
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I’m supporting 5 thank you very much. Ya trips to Africa ain’t cheap
 
That's their business.

My homeboys got busted a few times throughout their dating life. They still my niggas. I just smh and laughed b/c the shenanigans be hillarious as hell
 
Nah...

Relationships are a complicated thing. I wouldn't judge or change my opinion. No one but the 2 people involved really know what goes down in that relationship anyways. One of the 2 could harbour ill feelings towards the other for a multitude of reasons and they way it manifests itself is through cheating, rather than leaving. The human brain is weird and a creature of comfort...
 
Judge Dread said:
I try not to judge how people handle one situation with how they handle all. I know people that would take a bullet for me and their other Bretheren but they are just not faithful husbands. Like I said as long as you don’t involve me in that we are cool. Faithfulness to a spouse doesn’t seem to be as high on everyone’s list as it is on mine and even I couldn’t tell you that I will be 100 percent faithful for the rest of my life or my wife will be. We should do our best not to judge because we don’t know what is going on in anyone’s house.
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my answer to that is that i'd do my best to never place my self in a position that someone would have to step in front of a bullet for me....

i don't like owing people, and i don't like people sacrificing for me.....

especially if i personally feel ur allegiance to me isn't a priority....a man's family is his priority, not his homeboys..

save that loyalty for home
 
King Du said:
my answer to that is that i'd do my best to never place my self in a position that someone would have to step in front of a bullet for me....

i don't like owing people, and i don't like people sacrificing for me.....

especially if i personally feel ur allegiance to me isn't a priority....a man's family is his priority, not his homeboys..

save that loyalty for home
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I agree but some people just aren’t built like that and their loyalty to home in their minds doesn’t seem to require fidelity. Again I don’t judge them but everyone has to look themselves in mirror
 
Judge Dread said:
I agree but some people just aren’t built like that and their loyalty to home in their minds doesn’t seem to require fidelity. Again I don’t judge them but everyone has to look themselves in mirror
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i judge,

that's just me.....

a man who can't take care of his home is always questionable in my eyes....

blame it on my life experiences... or just call me a judgemental bastard....i honestly dgaf

but if your word ain't worth shit in your own home....i can't take it but so serious either....

when i was younger, i put a lot of trust in my homies, but now @ 35 that shit dead....i really can't place my trust in any man at this point......especially one not living right
 
Kandy said:
Everybody judges, it’s life but some mfs take the shit too far.
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you saying i'm wrong?

how?

if a person is willing to betray the trust of their family, you really think that makes you exempt??

worse case scenario from betraying a friend is y'all just ain't cool no more...

you betray a spouse that shit can ruin their life....

it just seems irresponsible imo,

i mean i can be cool with them.... but it ain't gonna be that deep....

trust and loyalty is very important to me...

i guess i just view the shit different
 
Judge Dread said:
We should just be careful who we nail pon cross as the song says.
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help me understand bruh....

you got a brethren that doggs his wife and children on the regular.....but yall tight.....

if some shit go foul with yall and he burns you... are u really not gonna consider the fact that you played yourself?

this man lies and cheats on his wife and kids routinely...those he's supposed to hold above all.......how special are you really to him?

how surprised can you really be?
 
King Du said:
you saying i'm wrong?

how?

if a person is willing to betray the trust of their family, you really think that makes you exempt??

worse case scenario from betraying a friend is y'all just ain't cool no more...

you betray a spouse that shit can ruin their life....

it just seems irresponsible imo,

i mean i can be cool with them.... but it ain't gonna be that deep....

trust and loyalty is very important to me...

i guess i just view the shit different
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I didn’t read your post. Sorry if you thought that was for you.

It was my response to the thread.
 
Kandy said:
I didn’t read your post. Sorry if you thought that was for you.

It was my response to the thread.
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oh no, i'm definitely judging.....

but i think i'm justified here....read more and get back to me
 
King Du said:
you saying i'm wrong?

how?

if a person is willing to betray the trust of their family, you really think that makes you exempt??

worse case scenario from betraying a friend is y'all just ain't cool no more...

you betray a spouse that shit can ruin their life....

it just seems irresponsible imo,

i mean i can be cool with them.... but it ain't gonna be that deep....

trust and loyalty is very important to me...

i guess i just view the shit different
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you can beat a spouse and that can ruin their life
 
King Du said:
help me understand bruh....

you got a brethren that doggs his wife and children on the regular.....but yall tight.....

if some shit go foul with yall and he burns you... are u really not gonna consider the fact that you played yourself?

this man lies and cheats on his wife and kids routinely...those he's supposed to hold above all.......how special are you really to him?

how surprised can you really be?
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Sometimes people take on a position that they are not ready for or not equipped for. The role of husband and monogamy unfortunately is not held to as high a standard as you and I ma hold them. I know people who have done terrible things but their code doesn’t let them do those things to people close to them. Don’t look at the way a person handles one aspect of their life and they that is the way they handle everything. I am not saying I am right and you are wrong I am just providing how I view things.
 
AP21 said:
you can beat a spouse and that can ruin their life
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yea, and niggaz that beat the shit outta their spouses get the side eye from me too.....

i've told a few homies they lost a lot of respect from me for that shit....and gave no fucks about how that shit made them feel...

cuz they obviously gave no fucks how it made me feel to see that shit....someone i love and respect just go savage on their family like that.....

that shit ain't cool, and i spoke my mind.....
 
Judge Dread said:
Sometimes people take on a position that they are not ready for or not equipped for. The role of husband and monogamy unfortunately is not held to as high a standard as you and I ma hold them. I know people who have done terrible things but their code doesn’t let them do those things to people close to them. Don’t look at the way a person handles one aspect of their life and they that is the way they handle everything. I am not saying I am right and you are wrong I am just providing how I view things.
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like the godfather said,

women and children can be careless, men cannot afford that luxury...

if a man is not self aware enough to realize that are in over their head...i question their decision making skills in life choices, and their ability to be a reliable friend.....

these are things that are recipies for disaster
 
King Du said:
yea, and niggaz that beat the shit outta their spouses get the side eye from me too.....

i've told a few homies they lost a lot of respect from me for that shit....and gave no fucks about how that shit made them feel...

cuz they obviously gave no fucks how it made me feel to see that shit....someone i love and respect just go savage on their family like that.....

that shit ain't cool, and i spoke my mind.....
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See I don’t have Bretheren that out hands on their women. That wouldn’t work for me. Maybe I just view that differently than cheating.
 
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