SeaSnake
OG
could’ve used way better language
Girlfriend of 6 months wants to move in what would you do?
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could’ve used way better language
silverfoxx
Bitch mob
We gotta have a meeting at Rasing Canes soon fam. Let me know when you free.
SeaSnake
OG
Facts
Elzo69Renaissance
Didnt you hear about the last nigga who swung @ me
Same way everybody else does.....unemployment insurance
Soul_Rattler
Active Member
I agree with this.
And if it hasn't been said already, a man who is unwilling or unable to help his woman financially (girlfriend or wife) should leave her. She will eventually get on her feet and when she does, that time period of him not helping her will never be forgiven or forgotten and either she will make him suffer for it or he'll be forever sorry until their relationship finally breaks, even if it's marriage.
Elzo69Renaissance
Didnt you hear about the last nigga who swung @ me
That s what I said hold her down or break up w her.....no in between
Race Jones
gangster. grace. alchemy
im not shaming her as ive been homeless before
im just saying i would take the money i would use to pay half of his bills and just rent my own room somewhere.
Race Jones
gangster. grace. alchemy
i never lived with a man and dont plan on it until im married (even then im not thrilled at the idea) so maybe im different but i wouldnt even feel comfortable staying at my mans house for months on end.
i would have been figuring out how to get a room or been looking at options with friends before i would even consider shacking up.
especially after 6 months.
i wouldnt dare maybe its pride or an ego thing but i hate having to depend on my boyfriends for anything outside of paying for our dates and maybe groceries.
rent and other huge bills is just something i wouldnt expect anyone to pay.
sorry
i would have been figuring out how to get a room or been looking at options with friends before i would even consider shacking up.
especially after 6 months.
i wouldnt dare maybe its pride or an ego thing but i hate having to depend on my boyfriends for anything outside of paying for our dates and maybe groceries.
rent and other huge bills is just something i wouldnt expect anyone to pay.
sorry
K
King Freeman
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AZTG
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Respect
AZTG
OG
Yall dont see how mans is tripping though? Im not saying he should let her move in. I already said I would only cause times is fucked up right now. But I aint mad at him for saying no.
Im just saying dude really expects to tell her no, offer to loan her $300 which is really the same as 0 in this case, then gets shocked she wanna break up.
Dude really lacking a level of social awareness.
Im cool with him saying no then relationship ends, but saying no after she asked and thinking everything should be as is while she getting evicted is wild to me.
Im just saying dude really expects to tell her no, offer to loan her $300 which is really the same as 0 in this case, then gets shocked she wanna break up.
Dude really lacking a level of social awareness.
Im cool with him saying no then relationship ends, but saying no after she asked and thinking everything should be as is while she getting evicted is wild to me.
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
I wonder if you moved in with her would she not charge you rent. Just curious.
GNS
Navahoes creep me in they teepees
Was waiting on this
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
I would have to think about it.
Depends in quite a few things.
Six months really isn't no time....But I would have to see how she handles money and see why she didn't have savings . That would tell me alot about if she was seriously going to try to get on her feet. I would also need to see effort before all this and during. Lastly....When she was cool financially...Did she offer to come out her pockets for me for anything?
If all them things are straight...She wouldnt have to move out. Assuming we get along 80% of the time.
Depends in quite a few things.
Six months really isn't no time....But I would have to see how she handles money and see why she didn't have savings . That would tell me alot about if she was seriously going to try to get on her feet. I would also need to see effort before all this and during. Lastly....When she was cool financially...Did she offer to come out her pockets for me for anything?
If all them things are straight...She wouldnt have to move out. Assuming we get along 80% of the time.
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
but can he not be ready but still assume that she should respect it and continue the relationship?
IP360
Doctorate & Ph.D in Bootyology
This also true.
I mean it's like him tellin her no she can't move in or help her..but turn around and ask her for some pussy.
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
so you saying ....if the man is not ready to help her after 6 months then he should not ask for pussy?
so the pussy is contingent on how or if he helps her? but what if she didnt earn her right to ask to move in yet?? what is she doing for him? what must she do to qualify to think its ok to move in other than having a pussy?
So can he really be into her but not ready to live together without it being a strike against him being a good dude?
lets go in this circle.
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loud-ninja
Here to point out the illogical
Fortunately I have a great support system so my girl at 6 months would be far down on the list. My parents would help and I have a few friends I can think off top could help. They all know I don't ask them for nothing and am the first person people call on for help. But let's say for what ever reason, I had to ask my girl. I will tell her I can pay whatever amount. I don't ever expect people to give me things for free just because I know them. If she doesn't want to take that step, I understand. Because really, I would be nervous of moving since I am being forced. But again, it is highly unlikely for me to ask her first.