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Men In The Black Community Don’t Know How To Be Faithful, Yay or Nay

Men In The Black Community Don’t Know How To Be Faithful

  • Yay.....you see how black women are built?

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Nay....she think her white man love her better

    Votes: 30 100.0%
  • Total voters
    30
Alle'Oop said:
It amazing to see yall just ignore the entire 80s and 90s treatment of black women by black men, and twist it to being the fault of black women.

Yall was alive and witnessed the level of mysoginy imposed on them.
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I was alive and didn't see that. Sure a few knuckleheads might have been out of line here and there, but the shit wasn't widespread.
 
The knee jerk reaction of dudes when they hear stuff about black men is to defend it and deflect rather than see where it's coming from and acknowledge it being truth to it. I asked specifically do niggas cheat and I have yet to receive a yes or no answer when it's obvious the answer is yes. A lot of yall (see what I did there) just have to accept that if black women (I'm talking in general, leave loni love dumbass out of it) are talking about things they've experienced from black men, it's coming from a place of us having an experience with men that you're blind to. You're not a woman or gay man so you dont deal with niggas the way we do.

To bring it back around....this is something I had to learn and confront about myself when I would hear things men say about "the game" and dealing with women. Their observations are based on trial and error from dealing with dozens of women. I cant look at it from what me and the women I know do and get upset about it. I have a smaller sample size and I dont deal with women romantically. Idk what my homegirls do when the lights go off at their crib with their s/o's.

It's human nature to defend yourself from what you perceive is a slight. That was the point of my trolling. If we bring up somebody's tweet, old lyrics, etc about shit said about black women and try to tell other dudes about it, we get hit with "but I didnt do that/see that," "you cant go off 1 tweet," "he was young," "that's not all of us," "but white men do xyz".....not addressing the point at all...tryna shut the convo down because somewhere deep down you taking it personal.

Now loni love says some dumb shit and we got a 18 pg thread on our hands lol. None of yall said "fuck this bitch she ain't nobody just ignore it." The shit bothers you the way it does us.
 
Alle'Oop said:
It amazing to see yall just ignore the entire 80s and 90s treatment of black women by black men, and twist it to being the fault of black women.

Yall was alive and witnessed the level of mysoginy imposed on them.
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What treatment are you talking about?

Black men did not and still dont have the resources to systematically oppress sistas

So give some examples
 
shutupGabi said:
The knee jerk reaction of dudes when they hear stuff about black men is to defend it and deflect rather than see where it's coming from and acknowledge it being truth to it. I asked specifically do niggas cheat and I have yet to receive a yes or no answer when it's obvious the answer is yes. A lot of yall (see what I did there) just have to accept that if black women (I'm talking in general, leave loni love dumbass out of it) are talking about things they've experienced from black men, it's coming from a place of us having an experience with men that you're blind to. You're not a woman or gay man so you dont deal with niggas the way we do.

To bring it back around....this is something I had to learn and confront about myself when I would hear things men say about "the game" and dealing with women. Their observations are based on trial and error from dealing with dozens of women. I cant look at it from what me and the women I know do and get upset about it. I have a smaller sample size and I dont deal with women romantically. Idk what my homegirls do when the lights go off at their crib with their s/o's.

It's human nature to defend yourself from what you perceive is a slight. That was the point of my trolling. If we bring up somebody's tweet, old lyrics, etc about shit said about black women and try to tell other dudes about it, we get hit with "but I didnt do that/see that," "you cant go off 1 tweet," "he was young," "that's not all of us," "but white men do xyz".....not addressing the point at all...tryna shut the convo down because somewhere deep down you taking it personal.

Now loni love says some dumb shit and we got a 18 pg thread on our hands lol. None of yall said "fuck this bitch she ain't nobody just ignore it." The shit bothers you the way it does us.
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I have never seen you type this much.

You got time today.
 
shutupGabi said:
The knee jerk reaction of dudes when they hear stuff about black men is to defend it and deflect rather than see where it's coming from and acknowledge it being truth to it. I asked specifically do niggas cheat and I have yet to receive a yes or no answer when it's obvious the answer is yes. A lot of yall (see what I did there) just have to accept that if black women (I'm talking in general, leave loni love dumbass out of it) are talking about things they've experienced from black men, it's coming from a place of us having an experience with men that you're blind to. You're not a woman or gay man so you dont deal with niggas the way we do.

To bring it back around....this is something I had to learn and confront about myself when I would hear things men say about "the game" and dealing with women. Their observations are based on trial and error from dealing with dozens of women. I cant look at it from what me and the women I know do and get upset about it. I have a smaller sample size and I dont deal with women romantically. Idk what my homegirls do when the lights go off at their crib with their s/o's.

It's human nature to defend yourself from what you perceive is a slight. That was the point of my trolling. If we bring up somebody's tweet, old lyrics, etc about shit said about black women and try to tell other dudes about it, we get hit with "but I didnt do that/see that," "you cant go off 1 tweet," "he was young," "that's not all of us," "but white men do xyz".....not addressing the point at all...tryna shut the convo down because somewhere deep down you taking it personal.

Now loni love says some dumb shit and we got a 18 pg thread on our hands lol. None of yall said "fuck this bitch she ain't nobody just ignore it." The shit bothers you the way it does us.
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Its one thing to acknowledge black men cheat but its disingenuous and counterproductive to our advancement to make us the poster child of infidelity.

Again, women/men/black/white/other cheat. So why is such attention given to us when it comes to this topic?
 
The Mad Titan said:
Its one thing to acknowledge black men cheat but its disingenuous and counterproductive to our advancement to make us the poster child of infidelity.

Again, women/men/black/white/other cheat. So why is such attention given to us when it comes to this topic?
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Leave loni love out of it and pretend I said it.

I'm a black woman who only got black men around me....that's my frame of reference. Other communities dont have nothing to do with me. I'm talking about MINE.


To be clear I dont share this sentiment. Just making the point...
 
konceptjones said:
I was alive and didn't see that. Sure a few knuckleheads might have been out of line here and there, but the shit wasn't widespread.
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Maybe it was just in Charleston, Jersey, Baltimore, and New York..specifically from the people I grew up around.
 
shutupGabi said:
Leave loni love out of it and pretend I said it.

I'm a black woman who only got black men around me....that's my frame of reference. Other communities dont have nothing to do with me. I'm talking about MINE.


To be clear I dont share this sentiment. Just making the point...
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I think her statement hold a different energy because she just getting with a white dude.

I don't think it would reach these levels had it not been a white dude who's unemployed she was with.
 
I'm honestly trying to figure out what y'all arguing about in here.

Is it that black men cheat more than other races?
Is it that Loni was making a good point? I don't think I've seen anyone agreeing with her broad generalization... Did I miss something?

muthafuckas cheat all the time no matter the race...and yes that includes black men.. you'd be silly to think otherwise.

Personally I think referencing slavery as a reason black men step out on their significant others is a bit of a cop out but im willing to hear an argument saying otherwise
 
She said..

I am not speaking for the black community, I'm speaking for myself. A lot of..not all, alot of black men that have money and fame. Dont know how to treat black women, they believe that because they have things they can treat women any way they feel.

Look at her..and listen to the men she is specifically talking about. That's her experience with those men, do you believe that those men specifically, are looking to be faithful and righteous to her.

For gawd sakes the niggaz here calling her "fat broad"
 
Inori said:
I'm honestly trying to figure out what y'all arguing about in here.

Is it that black men cheat more than other races?
Is it that Loni was making a good point? I don't think I've seen anyone agreeing with her broad generalization... Did I miss something?

muthafuckas cheat all the time no matter the race...and yes that includes black men.. you'd be silly to think otherwise.

Personally I think referencing slavery as a reason black men step out on their significant others is a bit of a cop out but im willing to hear an argument saying otherwise
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Fam gloria steinem made her way into this thread. This shit been lost the purpose lol
 
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