Men In The Black Community Don’t Know How To Be Faithful, Yay or Nay

[Dwayne]

This is bullshit

Im talking primal needs

 

[IP360]

Women AND men like that doesn't deserve a rebuttal to their kinda logic.

It's much easier to blame someone else than lookin at yourself.

 

[ImaInfluenza]

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Yes, back when blacks and women couldn't vote, some sistas started to take up the mantle for white women and join their cause. The same white women who hated them because their husbands lusted for them. The same white women who had them punished. The same white women who were married to the men that were enslaving their people.

Let's be clear, the issues that black women face in society both then and now are because they are BLACK. The rest of the world sees that black skin and doesn't get past that. Thats what they didn't realize then (or maybe didn't care as long as they got theirs) and it's still happening now.

How are black men responsible for our sistas who decided to join the enemy and sellout their race for a better position in society?

And you mentioned what "both groups had to struggle with", when only one group really had a legit struggle. White women ain't have no damn struggle at all (still don't) and no other race woman was out there being raped and abused en mass like black women, which was and is because of the condition of her BLACK people. White women sat on their pancake asses and ordered black women around. Their whole movement was basically them being bored and jealous that their men treated them like shit. They gave no fucks what other women went through, especially while black women were birthing in the fields and having their children snatched and sold.

As far as the imagery of we as black men, you really gon sit there and act like we controlled that narrative? The white man set that whole tone, not us, thru their media to support their WS mindset.

Instead of as a collective, we as black men come to accept that we as a collective dropped the ball in the treatment of women of our own race.

Pac said way back.."and if we dont, we'll have a race of babies that hate the ladies that make the babies"..as that shit manifests itself. We still outchea as a collective majority on some



Us..nigga,..us...until we as collective bring down the level of mysoginy and bitterness towards our sistas. They're gonna be right in their beef with us as a collective.

If I live in wit my sister in home and I hit the streets first. And I let everyone who will listen that my sister is a ho. For as long as they know me, when my sister leaves the home, before she can speak, she a hoe. There goes that ho..she try to be smart wit people, stuck up ho, she dont wanna fuck people, stingy ho, she try nice to people, stupid ho...

She come home to me, ugly ho....yea that's the world calling her that. But if I didnt put it outta my mouth that my sister is a ho..shes loved at home..call her a ho..not only is she not gonna believe it..she gone come home get me..now call her a hoe while I'm here..call me a hoe

 

[rip.dilla]

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Instead of as a collective, we as black men come to accept that we as a collective dropped the ball in the treatment of women of our own race.

Pac said way back.."and if we dont, we'll have a race of babies that hate the ladies that make the babies"..as that shit manifests itself. We still outchea as a collective majority on some

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Us..nigga,..us...until we as collective bring down the level of mysoginy and bitterness towards our sistas. They're gonna be right in their beef with us as a collective.

If I live in wit my sister in home and I hit the streets first. And I let everyone who will listen that my sister is a ho. For as long as they know me, when my sister leaves the home, before she can speak, she a hoe. There goes that ho..she try to be smart wit people, stuck up ho, she dont wanna fuck people, stingy ho, she try nice to people, stupid ho...

She come home to me, ugly ho....yea that's the world calling her that. But if I didnt put it outta my mouth that my sister is a ho..shes loved at home..call her a ho..not only is she not gonna believe it..she gone come home get me..now call her a hoe while I'm here..call me a hoe

Lmao at the generalisations in this post




I come from a culture where we don't call women bitches and hos....

 

[ImaInfluenza]

Lmao at the generalisations in this post




I come from a culture where we don't call women bitches and hos....

And more of us need to be more like you



Wheres the problem

 

[DOS_patos]

sooo

how the men gonna step up for the real women....not fat bitter chicks with white men.

 

[rip.dilla]

And more of us need to be more like you

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Wheres the problem

First sentence of your post...

 

[DOS_patos]

i would like to hear solutions.

i stay giving small ideas but niggas claim to not like how i say it...
but if you say it softly...niggas toxic masculinity kicks in an they overlook it.

then we back at square one.

the business idea seem to be lost....
a need to white business is crazy when so many of our people are able to do and make everything we need.

to be self sufficient is scary but its like getting out on your own from your parents house....its scary at first but then you never want to go back if you dont have to.

but why should our kids not see us building?
they need that image...not the image of the dope boy or the man slaving away for nothing or getting no where.

we have all we need in any hood.

it just people like to stamp out progress because they will get left behind if too many people progress.

 

[Disanthrope]

We have to stop allowing ppl to reinforce negative stereotypes about us just because they look like us

Word. Conditioning is real. I've been saying that

 

[ImaInfluenza]

First sentence of your post...

Come on bruh, if I can disregard that I'm not talking largely about my own self due to my own mindful respect of black women. You can gather that you as well dont fully encompass my overall generalized point.

 

[ImaInfluenza]

i would like to hear solutions.

i stay giving small ideas but niggas claim to not like how i say it...
but if you say it softly...niggas toxic masculinity kicks in an they overlook it.

then we back at square one.

the business idea seem to be lost....
a need to white business is crazy when so many of our people are able to do and make everything we need.

to be self sufficient is scary but its like getting out on your own from your parents house....its scary at first but then you never want to go back if you dont have to.

but why should our kids not see us building?
they need that image...not the image of the dope boy or the man slaving away for nothing or getting no where.

we have all we need in any hood.

it just people like to stamp out progress because they will get left behind if too many people progress.

Simple as what's in these lyrics, be the change you want to see, to inspire the change you want to see

 

[The Lonious Monk]

We acting like nobody had a problem with the bitches ain’t shit type of music in the 90s along with the violence too. C Delores Tucker. Like I know y’all seen it. I know y’all know older people who hated rap for those images why we acting like it wasn’t real

Who's acting like that? I for one specifically said that rappers have been criticized for misogyny in their lyrics. No one is saying that rappers are doing a good thing with those lyrics. However, again, that is music. When they sat Snoop down and asked him about his lyrics in that song, he made it clear that he wasn't talking about all women. He was talking about a certain segment of women that fell into that category. He had to be accountable. These women get on these shows and they aren't making statements with artistic license. They are making what they perceive to be real life commentary, and no one ever holds them to account. A couple feminists got on the Breakfast Club and said that black men were the number one cause of death for black women in a certain age group. That was a flat out lie. Are you really trying to say, a rapper saying "Bitches ain't shit" in a song is the same as misrepresenting stats to push a lie?

 

[DOS_patos]

Simple as what's in there lyrics, be the change you want to see, to inspire the change you want to see

Good point.

I am trying but I'm not able to reach everyone....thats why I reach out to others.
I am but one man but have long reach.
I often invite other to see what I see....most do t take me up on it...but I think I got the one person j have been targeting. But I need others.

These kids are not going in good directions. So I get hella angry at the adults.
Not the most productive way to get help I know but all the say it right an all......fuck that. Our kids need us.

 

[DMorgan]

Black people need to improve as individuals before we as individuals look outward and say what we as a collective of men and women need to improve on.

If you got trash and overgrown grass in your backyard you don't need to tell me shit about what's wrong with my front yard.

Truth be told the focus needs to be on the kids right now and not the adults right now. The kids right now are what is going to lead the change that we want to see. Starting with adults just means the kids right now will grow fucked up which will lead to them having kids but trying to correct themselves when they already have kids. Shit is backwards.

As much as folks don't want it to be that way what Frederick Douglas said is 100% facts. That ain't saying to ignore and not help the adults either

 

[The Mad Titan]

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Instead of as a collective, we as black men come to accept that we as a collective dropped the ball in the treatment of women of our own race.

Pac said way back.."and if we dont, we'll have a race of babies that hate the ladies that make the babies"..as that shit manifests itself. We still outchea as a collective majority on some

View attachment 212624

Us..nigga,..us...until we as collective bring down the level of mysoginy and bitterness towards our sistas. They're gonna be right in their beef with us as a collective.

If I live in wit my sister in home and I hit the streets first. And I let everyone who will listen that my sister is a ho. For as long as they know me, when my sister leaves the home, before she can speak, she a hoe. There goes that ho..she try to be smart wit people, stuck up ho, she dont wanna fuck people, stingy ho, she try nice to people, stupid ho...

She come home to me, ugly ho....yea that's the world calling her that. But if I didnt put it outta my mouth that my sister is a ho..shes loved at home..call her a ho..not only is she not gonna believe it..she gone come home get me..now call her a hoe while I'm here..call me a hoe

No nigga, WE ain't drop the ball, the collective of our adult generation from the 70s did. We had all kinds of political movements going but in the end niggas traded their Black Power signs for good weed and house parties.

All that blame it on the men is wack for one simple reason. Them niggas couldn't have done what they did without willing participants. It was the sum of bad choices on both sides, along with plenty outside sabotage that got us here.

Now I'm all for men being men, but being a man is under attack and has been for a while. You got a bunch of women running around telling men what they need to be doing and trying to define manhood when they can't.

So us real men, ignore all that and do what we do. We take care of our families, we treat our wives with respect and support them. We raise our kids and try to help our community.

All the while there's a complete opposite force telling us we're being toxic, misogynistic, controlling etc and we got sistas like this bird out on tour.

We can't lead those who don't want to be led. Some just gonna have to get left behind. But all this stepping up stuff needs our sistas to be willing participants. They gotta have our backs when we do.

Has to be a two sided attack, otherwise we get shit like this:

 

[Dwayne]

Black people need to improve as individuals before we as individuals look outward and say what we as a collective of men and women need to improve on.

If you got trash and overgrown grass in your backyard you don't need to tell me shit about what's wrong with my front yard.

Truth be told the focus needs to be on the kids right now and not the adults right now. The kids right now are what is going to lead the change that we want to see. Starting with adults just means the kids right now will grow fucked up which will lead to them having kids but trying to correct themselves when they already have kids. Shit is backwards.

As much as folks don't want it to be that way what Frederick Douglas said is 100% facts. That ain't saying to ignore and not help the adults either

It’s hard for a broken man to build strong children

 

[DMorgan]

It’s hard for a broken man to build strong children

It's really not because most people unless they have real mental issues know WTF is wrong with them and how they were raised. They can just as easily do the opposite of the fucked up shit that was done to you being raised.

 

[DOS_patos]

Black people need to improve as individuals before we as individuals look outward and say what we as a collective of men and women need to improve on.

If you got trash and overgrown grass in your backyard you don't need to tell me shit about what's wrong with my front yard.

Truth be told the focus needs to be on the kids right now and not the adults right now. The kids right now are what is going to lead the change that we want to see. Starting with adults just means the kids right now will grow fucked up which will lead to them having kids but trying to correct themselves when they already have kids. Shit is backwards.

As much as folks don't want it to be that way what Frederick Douglas said is 100% facts. That ain't saying to ignore and not help the adults either

Problem with this is people want to live that change now and the kids can do whatever afterwards.

I know far too many people hoping the child makes it ....to take care of them. Rather than being proud you raised a child who made it.

Our priorities are fucked up.
I don't want a Benz if black children don't have coats...but that's in the parents.

I'm a firm believer that if you ignore the problem ...it will find you..
Your kids may have...but the ones you ignored may take it from them.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

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No nigga, WE ain't drop the ball, the collective of our adult generation from the 70s did. We had all kinds of political movements going but in the end niggas traded their Black Power signs for good weed and house parties.

All that blame it on the men is wack for one simple reason. Them niggas couldn't have done what they did without willing participants. It was the sum of bad choices on both sides, along with plenty outside sabotage that got us here.

Now I'm all for men being men, but being a man is under attack and has been for a while. You got a bunch of women running around telling men what they need to be doing and trying to define manhood when they can't.

So us real men, ignore all that and do what we do. We take care of our families, we treat our wives with respect and support them. We raise our kids and try to help our community.

All the while there's a complete opposite force telling us we're being toxic, misogynistic, controlling etc and we got sistas like this bird out on tour.

We can't lead those who don't want to be led. Some just gonna have to get left behind. But all this stepping up stuff needs our sistas to be willing participants. They gotta have our backs when we do.

Has to be a two sided attack, otherwise we get shit like this:

Damn, that video right there says it all.

 

[DMorgan]

Problem with this is people want to live that change now and the kids can do whatever afterwards.

I know far too many people hoping the child makes it ....to take care of them. Rather than being proud you raised a child who made it.

Our priorities are fucked up.
I don't want a Benz if black children don't have coats...but that's in the parents.

I'm a firm believer that if you ignore the problem ...it will find you..
Your kids may have...but the ones you ignored may take it from them.

Those people are selfish and full shit about the change they want to live and see.

I'm far from selfish but nobody can buy coats for every black child in america that don't have one. So with that said if I want a benz and can afford one all the while helping my community. I ain't about to not get myself that benz just cause I can't help everybody.

If that is your stance I can respect that is for you. But the next man who doesn't feel that way ain't wrong or selfish.