Girlfriend of 6 months wants to move in what would you do?
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I woulda had her move in at month 3 lmao
Race Jones
gangster. grace. alchemy
relationship or not if im not ready to share my space with you, you have to respect it
Elzo69Renaissance
Didnt you hear about the last nigga who swung @ me
Shit Man U gotta hold your woman down
loud-ninja
Here to point out the illogical
Moving in with a person is a big step. Can't fault people who are not ready for it. As for paying her rent, depends on how your pockets are looking and how much the rent is. But I would probably let her stay until she gets back on her feet. Wouldn't charge her rent.
CeLLar-DooR
OG
Lol seems a lil harsh to me. Move her in and have confidence to tell her to bounce when her shit is together and if that doesn't happen in a timely manner, kick her out.
Like seriously its a global emergency and niggas talkin' about entitlement
But yeah my two cents
Like seriously its a global emergency and niggas talkin' about entitlement
But yeah my two cents
Elzo69Renaissance
Didnt you hear about the last nigga who swung @ me
If it’s a temporary move and she offered to pitch in I don’t see why not
Elzo69Renaissance
Didnt you hear about the last nigga who swung @ me
It’s not like she s a loser or a mooch ....imagine being homeless in the middle of a global pandemic cuz ur boyfriend of 6 months......man nvm she should just dump the nigga
The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
Depends on the nature of the relationship, but if you ain't ready to take that step, you shouldn't take it. If the other person can't understand that, he/she needs to walk.
What's going on with her that her only option for help is a person she's only been dating for 6 months.
What's going on with her that her only option for help is a person she's only been dating for 6 months.
B_A
I was here
And what, ask her to move back out when she gets on her feet? Nah she's there for good after that.
CeLLar-DooR
OG
If after six months my girl wouldn't let me pay to stay with her after corona took my job it's sayin' a lot and she cancelled for sure. Like seriously why am I with someone I can't rely on in an emergency
K
King Freeman
Guest
If I actually like her I let her move in but clear guidelines have to be set and understood. Especially the fact it isn't permanent.
If you say no you can't keep dating her tho. Lmao. That would make you a piece of shit.
If you say no you can't keep dating her tho. Lmao. That would make you a piece of shit.
Elzo69Renaissance
Didnt you hear about the last nigga who swung @ me
loud-ninja
Here to point out the illogical
Me personally, my money is not affected by this crisis. I can afford to take care of the bills. I do it now. I would want her to save her money so she can be back to where she was. That would be a slower process if I'm taking money from her.
K
King Freeman
Guest
Y'all spent the night plenty of times at that point. It's probably the least awkward option.
konceptjones
The one between three and three.
Me ad my ex were essentially living together at about 4 months in. Over the next two months I had only been back to my apartment twice and of those only one resulted in me crashing there overnight.
I don't see a problem if y'all feelin' each other at that level.
I don't see a problem if y'all feelin' each other at that level.
B_A
I was here
You make it sound so easy but once a crazy bitch is in your house its not exactly easy to evict them from your life.
Elzo69Renaissance
Didnt you hear about the last nigga who swung @ me
Lord Nemesis
I’ve had to zip up my nigga suit once in a while
If it was me in this scenario I wouldn't have let her move in but I would've floated her some chicken. I wouldn't be paying for everything but I'd help out where unemployment or her severance package wasn't enough.