Hater Hearst Helmsley
I AM THE GAME
Yeah I’m not fuckin with any nigga not taking care of his seeds. I don’t look at you or respect you as a man.
It hurts like fuck, but all my closest friends... Them niggaz was living foul.The older I get the more that will Smith quote about your circle reflecting who you are rings true. I've outgrown most of the niggas I grew up with and not just from a financial standpoint but from a mental perspective and that includes shit like being a deadbeat.
Hmm, that's tough since I have never been in that situation. I would hope my friend don't tell me this shit, lol. But if they did, I would have to seriously talk to him/her about the cheating. If there is something that can't be fixed with the relationship, I would suggest he/she end it. I'm assuming the person that is doing the cheating is the person I knew the longest. If that is the case, my loyalties are with them. But this situation is different though. You can be a bad husband/wife but still be their for your kids.Hate to change subjects,...
But do you feel the same about homies who cheat on their wives when you cool with their family...
Like their kids call you uncle, and his wife consider you a brother, and your boy got hella chicks on the side neglecting the fuck outta home....
Here’s the difference and the rub, you don’t know what they relationship is built onHate to change subjects,...
But do you feel the same about homies who cheat on their wives when you cool with their family...
Like their kids call you uncle, and his wife consider you a brother, and your boy got hella chicks on the side neglecting the fuck outta home....
But what kind of friend does that make you?You can be a bad husband/wife but still be their for your kids.
None of your businessHate to change subjects,...
But do you feel the same about homies who cheat on their wives when you cool with their family...
Like their kids call you uncle, and his wife consider you a brother, and your boy got hella chicks on the side neglecting the fuck outta home....
What's the friendship built on??Here’s the difference and the rub, you don’t know what they relationship is built on
The reality is, a lot of women and men are willfully ignorant to the the behavior of they spouses. and who’s the say the cheater ain’t taking care of home? Beating a deadbeat and an adultery are not the same at all
now had you said a deadbeat and an abusive spouse you would have had an argument
What if it comes up in discussionNone of your business
again, who’s to sayWhat's the friendship built on??
People cheat for different reasons. Could be their partner, is abusive (physical, emotioal, or verbally), doesn't pay them attention, lazy, got fat, cheating themselves, etc. Some of these reasons for cheating won't take away from the type of person they are.But what kind of friend does that make you?
I mean husband/wife supposed to be the ultimate bond.
I mean I get it, mad people have friends who are closer to them than they're spouse.....
But you gotta ask...
They share a house, kids, banking information, life insurance, they made promises together, obligations, and if you religious... They exchanged vows before God......
All that and their spouse still can't trust them.
Y'all just homies. Y'all don't share shit but memories.
You think you can trust them more than their spouse can?
In this situation, nahThis your friend though.
You know their situation.
They want outside pussy an like "fuck going home" to get it....
Wife an kids blowing your phone up looking for him.....
You having social events cameras n shit they bringing non wife chick...
Like you just chill like it's highschool and everybody running interference??
I don't have people in my circle that grimy so I can't really answer. I probably would talk to him. I would be disrespected because he is bringing the drama to my life.This your friend though.
You know their situation.
They want outside pussy an like "fuck going home" to get it....
Wife an kids blowing your phone up looking for him.....
You having social events cameras n shit they bringing non wife chick...
Like you just chill like it's highschool and everybody running interference??
This sums it up. I'm at the phase in life where I'm not stressing on anyone or anything. You ask my opinion and then get pissy because I give it, you got legit two phone calls to control your emotions and move on like an adult or I cease communication.I'd give them the honest truth about their situation.
But that's their situation. I'm not gonna obsesses over their short comings like I'm perfect. But I wouldn't hold back either if the topic came up.
I've never been in the habit of making grown adults do shit they clearly don't want to do.
If you don't wanna be in your kids life, that's your business. Just don't complain to me about shit and expect me to be on your side if you foul af.
If they can handle that truth. Then we can still be friends. But when you keep it honest with people about shit like that, they tend to distance themselves for you
I would probably kick them out if my event as well. Tell him to get his shit together. Get a divorce if he has to. But don't get me involved. Because if it becomes my problem, he may not like how I will handle it.I don't have people in my circle that grimy so I can't really answer. I probably would talk to him. I would be disrespected because he is bringing the drama to my life.
Hate to change subjects,...
But do you feel the same about homies who cheat on their wives when you cool with their family...
Like their kids call you uncle, and his wife consider you a brother, and your boy got hella chicks on the side neglecting the fuck outta home....
It definitely does...i commented on this but deleted it to stay on subject lol
but yeah, i cant hang with cheaters.....and i dont have to know the girl or the kids
I aint gone rat on you but dont involve me, tell me the stories, show me pics, etc....shits corny
barber shop talk always gets awkward around that part
I have one ruleHate to change subjects,...
But do you feel the same about homies who cheat on their wives when you cool with their family...
Like their kids call you uncle, and his wife consider you a brother, and your boy got hella chicks on the side neglecting the fuck outta home....