Meeks
The One with the Pretty Eyes.
What's wrong with being petty?
Nothing, I’m petty sometimes lmao.
What's wrong with being petty?
Why/how?
EhhHe was being petty.
He wanted to do the whole engagement ring thing, he even seemed excited about it UNTIL she told him that she didn’t want to change her last name.
For all I know, she may have told him that she wanted to hyphenate her last name (not take his last name at all) and he got upset.
Had he not mentioned how much he wanted to do the engagement ring before their conversation, I would’ve been able to believe he wasn’t being petty. Also, this is a conversation you have before the question...right? ?
To make my point clear, I would have to touch on societal mores, genealogy and etymology all from an historical standpoint, that's easier said than written. So I'll say this...
If she has the last name of her father/grand-father and so on then she should be eager or receptive to take mine.
Liberal media inundates women with the message that they should be in competition with men, rather than being complementary to men. The nuclear family led by a patriarch with endearing qualities is the last image that the industry wants to project.
New-age liberal philosophy tells women the method of taking a man's last name is oppressive, well she should already i'm not an oppressive person, so that should remove that reasoning from the equation. Otherwise I'll presume it means she doesn't believe in me, being the man should be the primary decision-maker and head of the household.
Oh. So bullshit is the reason it's a red flag. There are plenty of cultures around the world which don't favour the males name over the woman's so this oppression stuff is silly. Just shows you're plugged in the matrix, tho' I kno' you think you're a free thinker or sutten.
What if she just respects whichever parent her name came from? Or doesn't wanna be your subordinate. Or wants her family legacy continued thru her children.
You didn't read my comments clearly.
If she has the last name of her father/grand-father... because then clearly she doesn't come from the culture which you speak on.
If she doesn't then I'm willing to deliberate on other forms.
Leave the emotions and assumptions aside, especially when i took the liberty to respond to your comments.. 'Plugged in the matrix'. 'I kno' you think you're a free thinker', I don't even use the terms and how could you know what I think of myself.
You come across as being awfully emotional, dare i say feminine.
Double barrel or she keeps her name it's not an issue to meMen of this board. If your girl doesn’t want to take your last name what is your next move?
Remember when people were laughing at jayz because he took Beyonce last name that's how it should be
I don't think I would get married. But we also would have the convo after she got her ring.Men of this board. If your girl doesn’t want to take your last name what is your next move?
Non issueMen of this board. If your girl doesn’t want to take your last name what is your next move?
Men of this board. If your girl doesn’t want to take your last name what is your next move?