Men tend to take accountability for most things……The difference between how guys and chicks come up is so weird. A 16 y/o girl can make the choice to go to a party, get drunk, and do shit with an older guy, and call that guy a predator. That's probably fair because a lot of those dudes are predators. What's odd to me is that I can't, as a guy, ever remember having a mindset like that. Like if I went to a party where I probably shouldn't have been, gotten drunk when I shouldn't have, and something bad happened to me, my only reaction would have been that I fucked up. Like if I got robbed because I was slippin, I would have been mad at the robbers, but I would have been madder at myself.
I was just having a conversation with my first cousin about how he got taken advantage of when he was younger. I told him that the adults did him wrong, and he said he really just now is starting to see that at 40, but from 16 up until now, he always just blamed himself because he was warned against fucking with those people and he chose to do it anyway.
No proof just accusations no longer going down this road. Until proof all of this is hearsay
I don't get it.... what does all these messages have to do with anything?I guess I'm not surprised more has been added
These were the messages Sarah posted. I'll put them in spoiler since it's 10
The difference between how guys and chicks come up is so weird. A 16 y/o girl can make the choice to go to a party, get drunk, and do shit with an older guy, and call that guy a predator. That's probably fair because a lot of those dudes are predators. What's odd to me is that I can't, as a guy, ever remember having a mindset like that. Like if I went to a party where I probably shouldn't have been, gotten drunk when I shouldn't have, and something bad happened to me, my only reaction would have been that I fucked up. Like if I got robbed because I was slippin, I would have been mad at the robbers, but I would have been madder at myself.
I was just having a conversation with my first cousin about how he got taken advantage of when he was younger. I told him that the adults did him wrong, and he said he really just now is starting to see that at 40, but from 16 up until now, he always just blamed himself because he was warned against fucking with those people and he chose to do it anyway.
Getting sexally assaulted or raped is a little different than getting caught slippin or robbed and the bolded is actually the mindset a lot of those victims have and why they stay silent which is fucked up.
He just became a father with his new girl not too long ago. That plus the Keke Palmer Usher thing just happened to be the perfect storm for whatever her aim is.My only issue with all of this is the timing.
Why is this break-up shit coming out damn near a year later? What's her endgame? It just makes the motivation for sketchy as a muhfuck.
As for the Alexa chick coming out....well, we know how that go. She needs evidence that:
1) He was coming at her
and,
2) She was 16 when he did.