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Your relationship with your parents.

WilberDMillz said:
See my parents dang near daily. Me and Mom are always laughs when we talk, Dad and I always been super close and now are closer since I bought a house. Some much to learn about home ownership and he's seen and done it all. They in the same house i grew up in and we have dinner there almost every sunday.
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That's good as shit!! Bought my house nobody told me shit about owning a home and had to learn and still learning all that shit on the fly. Typical of my life though now that I think about.

For me it seems like once we all moved out of my grandparents house we were never as close as we used to be. Shit was great when it was my grandpop, granny, ma, sisters, brothers and one of my uncles all under one roof. We all still close but shit ain't the same
 
Mona Lea said:
I beat out 3 nigga. I have 3 sisters.
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Try being #1 of 9
 
I talk to my mama damn near everyday. It’s kinda crazy she calls me to vent. Who knew?! I call her to vent as well and get advice or just to ask dumb shit just to actually hear her voice. I’ll call her just to ask if her shoe lace is tied. Then hang up.


My dad and I aren’t as close as we used to be because he lives out of town and works A LOT now. However, I can call on him when I need help. We talk maybe a few times a month through short text. I do plan on tryna change it back to how it was because my grandfather just passed and it put a lot into perspective. Plus I’m his favorite child. Those other kids he got know it too.

My stepdad and I are cool. We only really talk when I go over there or on Facebook when he showing me funny videos. I see him often tho.
 
If you are raised and drilled with certain principles by your parents. Once you are grown you live by those principles and hold people to those principles.

If your parent or parents violate those principles can you or would cut your parents off like you would someone else who not your parent?
 
Me and moms been on the outs for a long ass time. We talk on occasion but the majority of the time in ends in a screaming match with my blood pressure through the roof. Got issues with her from childhood that she refuses to acknowledge and a major incident that happened as an adult that had me looking at her sideways. Plus, she found gawd and is a minister, but is extremely judgmental over my being Buddhist, so we clash over that 'cause she can't respect it.

Pops passed in 2001. Our relationship was getting a lot better before he passed.
 
After reading this thread, i think we need to conduct a new series on here called "The ABW Therapy Sessions".
 
Goldie said:
After reading this thread, i think we need to conduct a new series on here called "The ABW Therapy Sessions".
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Most folks ain't going to share real details. I know I ain't.

I asked that question because that is how I am. I don't or just can't place people above certain things no matter who they are. Its especially worse what a person violates is something they taught me to stand on. I be looking at them this what you taught me but you want me to let you slide. If I let you slide I'd feel like I'm a sucka and thats not an option.

Some of peoples who know feel like I'm a cold ass person for being that way but I just don't see it that way.
 
Cain said:
My dad was an asshole growing up but once I understood his moves as I became older I appreciated the tough love.

Me and Mom been solid we talk everyday
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^^^^This almost exactly...growin’ up I knew my pops was a cool nigga to everybody else but he was mad tough on me...once I hit 18 we just got “cool” and been my dude ever since

Moms always been my heart...still to this day we call/text about everything from my hate/her love of tha Warriors to real “life’s trials” shit
 
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