You propose and she says no, is the relationship over?

[DOS_patos]

 

[TTBF]

For me personally it's over. Can't see myself letting that go.

 

[mike030270]

Depends on the context of the no. Could be she's not ready emotionally, financially, etc.

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

Why would you propose if you are not certain she ll say yes?

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

But to answer the question….. yes

 

[GNS]

Depends on the context of the no.

My opinion as well. Depends on why.
If it's a road block that benefits both of us if we wait then I can see it.

That's a big IF tho.

Also if I propose in public she better say yes then tell me nah in private. Bitch embarrass me then it's definitely over.

 

[mryounggun]

I mean, if I was ready to spend the rest of my life with her 10 seconds ago…how does her not wanting to marry me at that point for whatever reason change that?

 

[Chi-Town B]

Yes it's over, what's left after that type of rejection

 

[Suckio Andretti]

Get her pregnant so she says yes

 

[mryounggun]

My opinion as well. Depends on why.
If it's a road block that benefits both of us if we wait then I can see it.

That's a big IF tho.

Also if I propose in public she better say yes then tell me nah in private. Bitch embarrass me then it's definitely over.

This is the reason I’ve always felt like public proposals are manipulative.

 

[Duwop]

I'm done.

 

[grYmes]

Yes. Proposing is just a formality. You should already have the idea that your significant other is ready for marriage before you do that shit. Very rarely I’ve seen does a rejected proposal end well.

 

[Dwayne]

It’s over.

If she’s say not we are on two completely different trajectories

Can’t see how y’all don’t see that

 

[Rubato]

It’s over.

If she’s say not we are on two completely different trajectories

Can’t see how y’all don’t see that

Or maybe she said “we’ll get married once you take care of [insert whatever]”

And bruh ain’t keep up his side of the deal

 

[Dwayne]

Or maybe she said “we’ll get married once you take care of [insert whatever]”

And bruh ain’t keep up his side of the deal

If take a certain condition to be met in order to be married than why are we together and that condition wasn’t already address and met. If it was never met in the first place we should have been broken up.

 

[loud-ninja]

I really dont like that picture of the angry black woman and the heart torn dude.

I have seen turned down proposals and it was never anger on the woman's part. More so sadness, confusion or embarrassment.

 

[DOS_patos]

Why would you propose if you are not certain she ll say yes?

Most guys don’t know if she will say yes, that’s why things get nervous right before.otherwise you can ask her when you come out the bathroom.

 

[Rubato]

If take a certain condition to be met in order to be married than why are we together and that condition wasn’t already address and met. If it was never met in the first place we should have been broken up.

I think women challenging their partners to show them something is pretty common…it may not be right in every scenario but still

 

[DOS_patos]

I think marriage starts way before the proposal.

If we are exclusive…we are building together then any and all roadblocks gets worked on together.

It shouldn’t start or stop with a proposal.

 

[mryounggun]

This shit about to turn into a thread full of niggas just waxing philosophically about marriage.

*cries silently*

Don’t mind me guys. I’m just in the corner hating.