Joshie Kahn
"I can fix that"
Oh and I'ma say it again, yall stay making life more complicated than it needs to be
Oh and I'ma say it again, yall stay making life more complicated than it needs to be
nah...let sway cookNigga u just hit puberty, you don't know what life is yet lol
You right about that last part my nigga, feels good to have no worries.Nigga u just hit puberty, you don't know what life is yet lol
I'm break this down real clean:nah...let sway cook
i wanna read this
I'm break this down real clean:
I'm speaking completely from personal experience and this ties in with the "games" thread from yesterday. I feel like humans let our personal lives dictate too much. I feel playing "games or setting up "test" is a defense mechanism that developed from being burned in a past relationship. I don't think that's something that occurs naturally, especially in something that inherently is supposed to make you vulnerable like a relationship. You're supposed to be able to trust/rely on someone that you're that intimate with.
Same with the rigorous expectations we expect from others, mfs be expecting to snag a doctor when they working the late night drive thru @ wendy's. We got people out here who saw their parents fussing and fighting all the time, trashing each others clothes, phones, cars etc and thinking that's normal. Same with the parents that gas their daughters up with being treated like a princess, giving them the impression that the world is supposed to cater to their every need, then they get older and start to date and reality hit's them hard. They don't know how to cope with all those ridiculous expectations that their parents instilled in them, so it becomes "there aren't any good men around anymore" or "Men don't know how to treat a lady anymore" . And that brings me to my final point and the crux of the issue, as long as your s/o is fucking you right, treating you right, puts a smile on your face, and yall can chill with each other without feeling sick or tired of each of other, then it's all good, why do people need more than that?
I don't think that was his point but I'll let him elaborateA dude working at Wendy's can't think about getting at a woman doctor/dentist? dayum.
Titles stop us from getting at a person?
Love is blind I thought - No Eve.
Like ap said, that wasn't the point knock. I'm saying be realistic, if that's what you're after in a mate, try to lift your own status first. Get yourself a degree or a cert in a trade, otherwise homie @ wendy's is simply fantasizing. Which is another version of that cinderella mindset I was touching on in the op.A dude working at Wendy's can't think about getting at a woman doctor/dentist? dayum. .
Like ap said, that wasn't the point knock. I'm saying be realistic, if that's what you're after in a mate, try to lift your own status first. Get yourself a degree or a cert in a trade, otherwise homie @ wendy's is simply fantasizing. Which is another version of that cinderella mindset I was touching on in the op.
Judah having a seizure
I'm not saying that at all, I'm basically saying be realistic, it's part of why people are so disappointed and unsatisfied in their personal lives because they're chasing after something that doesn't exist. That's the basic jist of the big paragraphs that I posted.I hear you, but I just think everybody is fair game.
That's like you're saying that a doctor is better than that person that's working at a Wendys or at a Chillis, the doctor may make more money but that doesn't equate to them being off limits from someone working at Wendy's or working at a Chillis imo
I don’t think I ask for much.
What I ask from a man is something I’m willing to give to my man or do for my man also.
I’ve been there. One long term and one not so long term but I gave so much of me, I lost sight of myself.I used to be that way... Then after two failed marriages and a failed long term I realized they ain't worth it.
I gave so much of myself to those three men there wasnt much of "me" left. What's left ain't really worth it to anybody.