If that’s the case let them offer it.I agree wholeheartedly in theory. I fully believe in not requiring what you cant do for yourself.
But for the sake of argument....if I'm fuckin with somebody who clearly makes head and shoulders above what I make, them exposing me to their lifestyle is the nature of dealing with me. It's common sense that I'd ask you for things I know you can afford.
Let who offer what?If that’s the case let them offer it.
Your dude if he got that much more than you.Let who offer what?
Lmao...if bruh takin me out to fancy dinners regularly, I'm sure he wants me to also look the part. If you know I'm broke compared to you, who paying for my upkeep? Again, I agree with him in theory....but it's not realistic a chick wouldn't ask for stuff.Your dude if he got that much more than you.
Cool just let him offer. If he says babe let me take you shopping, let me give you money for nails and hair etc. But then again it depends on how far along in the relationship y’all are..Lmao...if bruh takin me out to fancy dinners regularly, I'm sure he wants me to also look the part. If you know I'm broke compared to you, who paying for my upkeep? Again, I agree with him in theory....but it's not realistic a chick wouldn't ask for stuff.
Which is why I fuck with what he said cuz he said dont fuck with me if you cant hang.
FairCool just let him offer. If he says babe let me take you shopping, let me give you money for nails and hair etc. But then again it depends on how far along in the relationship y’all are..
Lmao...if bruh takin me out to fancy dinners regularly, I'm sure he wants me to also look the part. If you know I'm broke compared to you, who paying for my upkeep? Again, I agree with him in theory....but it's not realistic a chick wouldn't ask for stuff.
Which is why I fuck with what he said cuz he said dont fuck with me if you cant hang.
If you swoop me while I'm working at kohl's ima always be broke lmaoIf the man is paying for all the expensive and fancy outings. Why the fuck is the woman still broke? She has money management issues.
LLS just for continuation of the convo
If you swoop me while I'm working at kohl's ima always be broke lmao
The thread title is misleading. He is saying that it depends on the female's attitude. If she feels entitled and bossy, then he is gonna ask if she could afford it or not. It the woman was nice and asked if he could buy it, then he has no problem. Which i agree. But if I was rich, she would get gifts every now and then but I would more so help invest in her goals. So she can afford those gifts herself and be on my level. I'm not into spoiling people for no reason. Got to earn it. But that is if we have been dating for a while
Listen to it again. He explained what he meant after he said that. He said if the lady tells him to buy the purse, making him feel like a trick, he has a problem with her. If she is not trying to play him, then he is cool.Naw.
He said if you aint in my tax bracket dont ask for shit you cant afford