OPINION Women are the "Favor Factor"...
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I don't disagree but we're in a new time where this isn't really the case anymore. Too much access to pussy to be chasing it. And too much access to dick to be waiting for it to notice you.
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
ummmm
uh
hmmmmm???
ok hes a few things i took from that. right and wrong
i think he hit the nail on the head about a man needing a mission and the woman helping him.
that i fully agree with. but i also think a woman needs a mission of her own to be fullfilled with her own life and the man should help her with that like she helps him.
it can be a beautiful thing when a man and woman knows their role in a relationship.
that seed and son, grocery and dinner shit.....nah.
the baby needs both parents....and she needs to the seed to procreate. and the plan to have a child is made by both...
and while these chicks speaking over the man trying to make a point are missing some crucial info and very main point alot of men seek.
SHUT THA FUCK UP WHILE IM TALKING!
my goodness. even when someone is saying something they can agree with they still wont shut the hell up.
But about this favor shit....nah.
just because you pretty dont mean nothing...if you cant bring anything to the table.
both men and women need to step it up.
uh
hmmmmm???
ok hes a few things i took from that. right and wrong
i think he hit the nail on the head about a man needing a mission and the woman helping him.
that i fully agree with. but i also think a woman needs a mission of her own to be fullfilled with her own life and the man should help her with that like she helps him.
it can be a beautiful thing when a man and woman knows their role in a relationship.
that seed and son, grocery and dinner shit.....nah.
the baby needs both parents....and she needs to the seed to procreate. and the plan to have a child is made by both...
and while these chicks speaking over the man trying to make a point are missing some crucial info and very main point alot of men seek.
SHUT THA FUCK UP WHILE IM TALKING!
my goodness. even when someone is saying something they can agree with they still wont shut the hell up.
But about this favor shit....nah.
just because you pretty dont mean nothing...if you cant bring anything to the table.
both men and women need to step it up.
Lol at chasing a woman. Let me ask all the men a question, the woman that yāall are with now did yāall chase them or did yāall have an immediate connection and it went from there?
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
i fell in love with my wife as soon as i saw her.
no shit.
but i also had to present that i was a man worthy of her time.
and what i think some people miss....
she had to present that she was worthy of me sticking around after the smash.
alot of chicks just aint worthy of after the smash time. thats the most important time.
Playmaker88
G Money is Cash
i agree with his overall sentiment.
Would i be surprised he tell it and aint living it.. Np
you dont have to be an expert to know what he said.. its about the immediacy or some people they rather get the right now.. rather than right. Thats across relationships and everything else that makes up life in general.. What makes wanting that problematic is the fact that it is not appreciated. 9 times out of 10. And it skews expectations while putting responsibility and accountability on the backburner
Would i be surprised he tell it and aint living it.. Np
you dont have to be an expert to know what he said.. its about the immediacy or some people they rather get the right now.. rather than right. Thats across relationships and everything else that makes up life in general.. What makes wanting that problematic is the fact that it is not appreciated. 9 times out of 10. And it skews expectations while putting responsibility and accountability on the backburner
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But did she make you chase her, or did yāall have an immediate understanding?
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
i can say i did chase a bit...but because she knew i had a chick and she didnt know i broke up with her, i had to go after her. but once i talked to her....it was a wrap.
since our first conversation
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
i thought he seemed kinda fruity loop
My point exactly. So if you have to chase someone then the person youāre chasing donāt really want you like that.
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
nah...i cant say that.
sometimes the time might not be right or they might be having a bad day....or not finish dealing with some shit.
maybe i got the meaning of chase wrong in this case.
what you mean?
Think Urkel and Laura. Thatās the most extreme case of chasing. Or even Screech and Lisa. Getting little crumbs of attention while mostly getting ignored in the hopes that one day theyāll see you as a catch and fall for you rarely ever happens.
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
ego feeding...but i see your point.
them type of dudes get seen after the good years are behind the chick.
I like what he said but like Gabi said pussy is too easy to come by and dick is too readily available. This aināt the old days. Niggas aināt out here chasing shit when itās a chick out here ready to give it up.
Babelipsss
Active Member
I disagree. I think it's human nature to enjoy the challenge or chase in this case. Yes men and women will still take the easy sex when the opportunity arises but flirting, impressing, pursuing, chasing, catching someone's attention, however you want to put it will always happen. Sometimes the chase itself is exciting. My grandma always said, "Let him chase you till you catch him."
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
true true...
but the thing is....alot of people dont want their time wasted.
they do alot of chasing with no results if its not a benefit to the person whos being chased.