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Why Women Make Good Guys Wait and Other Guys Hit Quick

Chicity said:
I really don't but l believe sometimes it boils down to basic laws of attraction

I think men have a hard time accepting they level of attractiveness so women have learned to soften the blow with the 'good guy/nice guy' remarks

The male ego is a fragile thing
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I'm glad you brought up ego. I took great care not to.

All this young lady did was share her method, and right, wrong or indifferent, that's her choice. I don't understand the visceral reaction men have to a woman's choice, whatever it may be.
 
obnoxiouslyfresh said:
I'm glad you brought up ego. I took great care not to.

All this young lady did was share her method, and right, wrong or indifferent, that's her choice. I don't understand the visceral reaction men have to a woman's choice, whatever it may be.
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Because the choices often lead to contradictions

You want whatever aura the bad boy presents but you don't want the actual shit that tends to come with that
 
AP2.5 said:
Because the choices often lead to contradictions

You want whatever aura the bad boy presents but you don't want the actual shit that tends to come with that
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That's not really what she said though. She's saying that she sees something more serious with the good guy and she handles him differently. Big deal.

How is that any different than the aura of the women that are bad girl/instagram models vs what men want with long term partners? Everyone does that. You may want something different for the short term than the long term.
 
Shitty men don’t hold women accountable, some…women don’t want to be held accountable and they lowkey feel like they’re better than the shitty guy. So if he hurts them, they’ll be hurt but he’s not better than them.

As opposed to a good guy holding them accountable and hurting them, when someone better than you hurts you. That’s a fate worst than death sometimes. Thats when you see people totally crash out, kill the partner and the kids.
 
lol..chase you down while you drunk on sleep meds in ya whip and buss ya windows out when you crash with a golf club

Or

lol..tell cops you assaulted them and ruin ya career
 
any man I'm dating gonna have to wait till marriage so I can't resonate with this here woman lol
 
Goldie said:
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You niggas didn't know this? I've written off every single female I've fucked on the quicks cause I assumed thats regular behavior. She's very valid in what she's saying. That's not bird behavior that's 2024 in my 20s-30s human behavior. 🤷🏿‍♂️
 
Chicity said:
I really don't but l believe sometimes it boils down to basic laws of attraction

I think men have a hard time accepting they level of attractiveness so women have learned to soften the blow with the 'good guy/nice guy' remarks

The male ego is a fragile thing
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Mans said good niggas ugly.
 
This can work if none of the men know each other. She can front for the good guy. But if a dude knows you're giving it up easy, why would he be motivated to put in extra effort for it?
 
obnoxiouslyfresh said:
That's not really what she said though. She's saying that she sees something more serious with the good guy and she handles him differently. Big deal.

How is that any different than the aura of the women that are bad girl/instagram models vs what men want with long term partners? Everyone does that. You may want something different for the short term than the long term.
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I think it's different because (generally speaking) men want sex... it's a high priority to us. She's giving the guy she less interested in that reward more easily. I don't think men are quick to give instagram girls things, but make the women they're legitimately interested in wait for them.

I don't hear men say they'll give time, money, attention, affection, etc to hoes, but make wifey wait.

The confusing part to men is, why you mad at dog behavior, when you reward the dogs?
 
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Bow to Royalty said:
I think it's different because (generally speaking) men want sex... it's a high priority to us. She's giving the guy she less interested in that reward more easily. I don't think men give the instagram girls things they plan on making the women they're legitimately interested in wait for.

I don't hear men say they'll give time, money, attention, affection, etc to hoes, but make wifey wait.

The confusing part to men is, why you mad at dog behavior, when you reward the dogs?
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I think you're putting too much on what you perceive women to want. Sometimes shorty just want to get stretched.

Maybe that's what they equate the dog to doing well. 🤷🏿‍♂️
 
TTBF said:
I think you're putting too much on what you perceive women to want. Sometimes shorty just want to get stretched.

Maybe that's what they equate the dog to doing well. 🤷🏿‍♂️
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And that's fine. You just can't look up later saying men ain't shit because you were spending time rewarding undesirable traits in men, while making yourself less appealing to the men you want.

Women can fuck who they want, when they want... but there are consequences.
 
Bow to Royalty said:
And that's fine. You just can't look up later saying men ain't shit because you were spending time rewarding undesirable traits in men, while making yourself less appealing to the men you want.

Women can fuck who they want, when they want... but there are consequences.
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This logic is why plenty of good niggas struggle imo. I'm not sure it's realistic in todays world. 🤷🏿‍♂️
 
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