Maybe we just dont talk about shit that they care to speak about. Then when they do post, theres an overload of Male attention. Added to that, most got at least one guy that they fuck wit behind the scenes. So now hes in his feelings, and their gonna do the thing to settle his ego and fall back. Then every woman gets into her, to quote Meeks "pick me" bag, and some other women dont like that preferred bag. Then things don't move fast enough to wash off the stank of a womans scent that, its not that they dont like her, they just arent fond of. So they get ghost until that aroma is gone. Then why deal wit all of that when u can just lurk, laugh, mmmmhmmm, ugh ugh, niggaz please, bitch shut up...to yourself and not deal with drama. Theres two sides to dealing with mature women, good convo and mature action.