When is it okay to open up to your woman?

Golan said:
That's a good question for another time, but a terrible comparison. Women are talking about being murdered and raped, not sharing feelings.
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It's a stupid ass question to begin with. There's a list of women murked by bears gong back decades but, yeah, by all means pick the bear.
 
SeaSnake said:
Completely not getting it lol. The lost of women raped and murdered is probably higher than Bear attack deaths
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Running into a random man in the woods will likely go without incident. The rate of incident running into a bear in the woods is astronomically more dangerous. But this is a purely an online discussion. I'm literally in "the woods" all over SE Michigan every weekend and encounter plenty of single women on the trails that are unbothered by the presence of a man but are startled to a screaming panic by a lil ass garter snake (happened several times in front of me) or a deer (happened two weeks ago).
 
konceptjones said:
Running into a random man in the woods will likely go without incident. The rate of incident running into a bear in the woods is astronomically more dangerous. But this is a purely an online discussion. I'm literally in "the woods" all over SE Michigan every weekend and encounter plenty of single women on the trails that are unbothered by the presence of a man but are startled to a screaming panic by a lil ass garter snake (happened several times in front of me) or a deer (happened two weeks ago).
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Ok
 
SeaSnake said:
Ok
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AP3.0 said:
Knowing you're the gay ambassador, this has an entirely different meaning now reading this back
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I think you misinterpreted my post

That was me asking 5th is this nigga seriously asking this question?

It was an incredulous question

You tried it though
 
Al G. Rhythm said:
I think you misinterpreted my post

That was me asking 5th is this nigga seriously asking this question?

It was an incredulous question

You tried it though
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I didn't

I understood your post initially and still understand it BUT...

Nvm

See you in the next thread
 
I only made it to page 3 out of 13 pages… seems like it’s the same convo…

For me, it’s not about my feelings being weaponized against me. It’s just I’d rather deal w whatever on my own. I’ve never really thought about dumping on someone, even my wife.

I find more comfort in being able to work through my issues on my own. Now I’m not saying I’ve *never* done this, I have, but I feel as if nothing came from it. I just felt dumb and weak-minded for doing so.

I’ve always internalized and dealt with. It’s all I have known. I don’t want to invite some pity party. I even tell myself often “womp womp” when dealing with things.

There’s what, 7, 8 billion people currently, and what throughout history? Tens of billions, maybe hundreds of billions… who am I in a sea of people to think I can’t deal with this section of storm? Or that I must express otherwise bottled up issues become bigger? They don’t…

If you’ve ever seen that Shia LaBeouf “just do it” thing, that’s exactly how I function in my own mind.

I don’t want help, I don’t want or need someone to talk me through it. I feel lesser than if I do.

I’m constantly having a dialogue with myself as if I’m two people. I’m my own therapist; my own psychiatrist; my own philosopher.. etc.

I’ll search things up on YouTube, or google, more so now AI… to express my thoughts and feelings and figure out how to organize them into something I can work out.

I’m not the most emotional person, though. Maybe that has something to do w it. It’s hard for me to truly be empathetic or sympathetic… whichever. I just know how to respond. More of a learned reaction rather than truly being concerned. So in dealing with myself, my thoughts, emotions.. I just do.
 
Facebook Watch/Video has this absolutely infuriating habit of switching to a different video after one has finished. There was a Joe and Jada segment with Common that I was watching but it got towards the end and had to make a quick bathroom run so I got up without pausing the video. Came back and this video was about halfway through. Figured I'd post it since it's relevant to this thread.

 
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