When a man loves a woman, should he accept getting cuckolded?

[Old Man Cain]

idk about the others but if they know he's married and he's not in an open marriage, then they are all hoes. i don't know why hoes are stepping over each other to share one another's hoes but one man's treasure I suppose.

idgaf about consenting adults but infidelity implies the violation of at least one party's consent. his wife presumably didn't consent to be married to a dirty man who sleeps around. thus he is a hoe.

idk why the "that's a hoe" was assumed to be directed at the women, who may well be single for all anyone knows.

 

[Judge Dread]

Man I did not know that Lol

I've never heard that term used in a bf/gf status setting Lmaoo

I didn't know either but when you asked I looked it up. I always thought you were either married or single but it seems now that if you are sleeping together you get certain rights. I am glad I am out of that realm because I was a bad person,

 

[Old Man Cain]

shit happens b

the hell? lol it doesn't become cheating just because your relationship is recognized by the state.

infidelity is just a fancy word for cheating.

so every single thot you know is married? ur circle is proof that there's hope for hoes and anything is possible.

you can be a husband, a side nigga, have a wife, have a side hoe, have your side hoe be someone's wife. what a beautiful time of endless opportunity we live in.

Its biblical ma'am

 

[Judge Dread]

I just want to wish anyone who is single good luck and anyone that is already married even more luck because @Cain stories would have you asking questions. I remember these stories in my 20's but his people are in their 40's still doing the same nonsense. When does one grow up or get tired of the drama of these situations?

 

[Knock_Twice]

I just want to wish anyone who is single good luck and anyone that is already married even more luck because @Cain stories would have you asking questions. I remember these stories in my 20's but his people are in their 40's still doing the same nonsense. When does one grow up or get tired of the drama of these situations?

man if you were on the IC, that 1st scumbag thread would have you questioning any and everybody smh Lol.

I'll scream it until I'm old and gray, Niggas (that include women) aint shit

 

[Judge Dread]

man if you were on the IC, that 1st scumbag thread would have you questioning any and everybody smh Lol.

I'll scream it until I'm old and gray, Niggas (that's include women) aint shit

I lurked in that thread and plenty of times I was spitting out my water. That dude Slim had the best stories.

 

[Knock_Twice]

I lurked in that thread and plenty of times I was spitting out my water. That dude Slim had the best stories.

Breh,

I use to check that thread everyday like a nigga with sugar have to take insulin everyday smh

If I didn't check, I'd be upset. That thread awww mane.. smh Lmaoo

 

[Old Man Cain]

true indeed.

@Cain, how do you still believe in marriage when every single day you see first hand how many men's wives are other men's side chicks? sincere question.

Because after awhile it will come a time where you don't want to be in the streets running around do Lord knows what so you have to think that sooner or later that you'll settle down and hang up your jersey aka washed.

I just want to wish anyone who is single good luck and anyone that is already married even more luck because @Cain stories would have you asking questions. I remember these stories in my 20's but his people are in their 40's still doing the same nonsense. When does one grow up or get tired of the drama of these situations?

Lol at 40's people have and will do this for the rest of their lives because it's our oldest instinct to procreate. We can dress it up all day and bring in morals but before and after morals we have instincts. Marriage is a social construct and not a natural construct. I'm not going to get on a high horse and say this person is wrong it that person is wrong because I'm on the outside looking in but thing's change and people change so I can see why people do what they do.

 

[Old Man Cain]

have you then accepted the likelihood of your becoming a cuckhold?

your cheating stories don't just involve your boys. you mention messing with women who are married.

do you think you and your prospective bride will be the exception, and not the rule?

Nigga what? Shut up

 

[Knock_Twice]

Lmaoo

 

[Old Man Cain]

I'm serious.

Hence the reason I said shut up

 

[Knock_Twice]

have you then accepted the likelihood of your becoming a cuckhold?

your cheating stories don't just involve your boys. you mention messing with women who are married.

do you think you and your prospective bride will be the exception, and not the rule?

Would you consider this cheating? (off the subject from what we talking bout) but getting an idea from another source (girl in my case) and presenting it to your (main) partner like you came up with it Lol

 

[Judge Dread]

Because after awhile it will come a time where you don't want to be in the streets running around do Lord knows what so you have to think that sooner or later that you'll settle down and hang up your jersey aka washed.



Lol at 40's people have and will do this for the rest of their lives because it's our oldest instinct to procreate. We can dress it up all day and bring in morals but before and after morals we have instincts. Marriage is a social construct and not a natural construct. I'm not going to get on a high horse and say this person is wrong it that person is wrong because I'm on the outside looking in but thing's change and people change so I can see why people do what they do.

Marriage isn't really the problem tho. It is the belief that you can only sleep with that 1 person for the rest of your life. Monogamy is a lot harder than marriage. Me being monogamous is built on the thought that if I cheated I would hurt my wife and my son. Not on the I am married part.

 

[Knock_Twice]

special snowflake right here.

"I'm the exception" goofy ass. get cucked and get a House In Virginia

what does that have to do with infidelity?

Nah, I'm just asking if it's considered (stepping out)

Like yo dude comes home and be like "Let's go feed lions" or "ride bikes on the mountains" (and you know this nigga hate adventure) you ask him what makes him wanna do this and he states to you that Kisha from his department at work told him that he should do it, it's fun and daring,

2 weeks later (Kisha) brings a dish to work and he tries it and it's good to him, he asked for the recipe and he cooks it for you, (surprises you with it), it's alright to you, not some shit you'll eat, but you ate it, Lol, you asked where he got the shit idea from, cuz you know this nigga never cooks, and he says Kisha from work told him Lol.

What's going on in your mind? Lol

 

[Judge Dread]

then why bother tho? why shouldn't we all be polygamous if monogamy is that hard?

I didn't say it was hard for lol of us. I wouldn't be in a polygamous relationship but at the same time I would be lying to you if I said I don't find other women attractive. I just know for me the thought isn't about I am married it is more about the pain my cheating would cause.

 

[Old Man Cain]

that moment when u think u hanging up the jersey, but ur wife is getting her back blown out by the team

LMAO

It happens.

 

[Knock_Twice]

Is she the lunch person. That was another infamous thread on the IC

You see where I"m going Lmaoo

Not technically the lunch lady, but she's in the 1st stages of becoming one Lol. Dude is getting ideas from her and bringing them shits into his relationship.

I wanted to know if this would be considered a problem if he's always getting ideas from Kisha

 

[Judge Dread]

I'd imagine that would've caused pain to your wife as soon as y'all were committed/invested, no?

When we started dating she told me the once we became intimate she expected me to stop being that way with anyone else and that was part of the reason it took 5 years for us to date. Me being monogamous started the day we slept together not the day we got married.

 

[Old Man Cain]

it happens, but have you accepted and come to be at peace with the fact that it can happen to you? since you feel no way about it happening to others.

If you play a game you don't always win. You know that going into the game before you start. Anybody at any time can have their mate jump ship on them.

I don't live in fantasy land

 

[Knock_Twice]

never in my life has a relationship or crush began with "he gave me an idea to try something out".

saying that's the first stage of something coming to be is paranoid. especially if he's openly admitting to where he got the idea

that's paranoia

You don't think that could be a possibility of your mate asking a lady at his job for several ideas and bring them back into yall relationship?

Just because it hasn't happened, you don't think it can? even with the one you may be with now?