Welcome To aBlackWeb

Register

What yall think about this video about single black women

Nothing wrong wit being a single black woman, women should be more choosey about who they want to be with. They’re giving the gift of their bodies and their hearts.

Ain’t a black man in this world that can tell you there’s anything better than the love of a black woman.Giving away something that special should require pause and deliberation.
 
Germs said:
Nothing wrong wit being a single black woman, women should be more choosey about who they want to be with. They’re giving the gift of their bodies and their hearts.

Ain’t a black man in this world that can tell you there’s anything better than the love of a black woman.Giving away something that special should require pause and deliberation.
Click to expand...
so which lady you trynna holla at bruh
 
One thing these videos or discussions never address is the attitude a lotta these women have. Their degree makes them. Their job title makes them. Their salary makes them.

They often have overinflated egos. Cant nobody tell them shit. Now tell me what man in his right mind is dealing with that? A huge part of the problem is often times these kind of women forget how to be soft and feminine. Men dont want a woman who is always trying to compete with them or act like their superior.

Plus our women have long been raised to be anti male if you really think about it. They've been taught not to need us. I'm not saying be dependent on a man but they can take the I dont need you too far. To the point where a man will question why is he there to begin with.

And last but not least, lets not forget the common problem of chasing aint shit niggas while they're working on the degree/career and the responsible men are lames to them.
 
Women have not been taught to not need us..from the moment they are able to understand words. Women are bombarded with the notion that they need to find their Prince Charming, or that he’s out there waiting to save them...

With a Kiss, with chivilary, with a epic battle
 
i think alot of people also live other peoples reality.

case and point.

i know a chick who mom was treated like shit by a dude.
she she feels like she wont ever allow a nigga to treat her like that.

i keep telling her.....she dont know the whole story..only what she saw. but all niggas aint shit because of how her mom was treated by a nigga, not knowing her daughter is seeing how she is treating dudes .

that shit is going to keep the circle going.

people love to take the bad from everything ....but skip over good relationships because taking anything from them mean you have to act like you got some sense
 
What whole story is there to know? What constitutes a man to treat a woman like shit. How could she possibly at fault to be treated like shit.

She cheated on him but stayed with him, does that give him the right?

He sell dope and she smoked it up, does that give him the right?

He wants kids and she can’t have any, does that give him the right?

At the end of the day, ....nah lemme chill, lol..I’m buggin right now.

But still..bruh u can’t be telling a woman who witnessed her mom getting degraded that she don’t know the whole story, that’s wild
 
That might have been true in the 50's but by the late 60's women wasnt checking for that shit. They was busy gettin lit and fuckin. Everybody was.

Women have been fed niggas aint shit for the last 3 decades at least.
 
Little Mermaid
Pocahontas
Shriek
Almost every Disney movie

Pretty Woman
How Stella got her groove back

I could go on and on..

If anything, men have been fed to believe women ain’t shit..that’s why these lil boys outchea, becoming them
 
Lol those fairytale movies been irrelevant since the decade they were made in. Promce Charmin been washed. And I will say rightfully so. A lotta men fucked up and killed that fantasy. So to a degree I can understand part of the origin of the shift in thinking. Nut its only one part of the reason.

Lets ask how many of the ladies in here grew up being fed a disney fairytale
 
Germs said:
What whole story is there to know? What constitutes a man to treat a woman like shit. How could she possibly at fault to be treated like shit.

She cheated on him but stayed with him, does that give him the right?

He sell dope and she smoked it up, does that give him the right?

He wants kids and she can’t have any, does that give him the right?

At the end of the day, ....nah lemme chill, lol..I’m buggin right now.

But still..bruh u can’t be telling a woman who witnessed her mom getting degraded that she don’t know the whole story, that’s wild
Click to expand...

but what someone may think is treating like shit ....we could come in at the tail of some shit.

you may not know is she cheated on him or treated him like shit.....we just dont know unless we was there the whole time.

and she could side with her mom no matter what like most kids do. to some people their mom could do no wrong.

even tho i know her mom..and shes the sweetest woman i ever met. but that doesnt mean she was like that all the time.
 
DOS_patos said:
but what someone may think is treating like shit ....we could come in at the tail of some shit.

you may not know is she cheated on him or treated him like shit.....we just dont know unless we was there the whole time.

and she could side with her mom no matter what like most kids do. to some people their mom could do no wrong.

even tho i know her mom..and shes the sweetest woman i ever met. but that doesnt mean she was like that all the time.
Click to expand...
That’s besides the point fam..u don’t tell a woman who witness her moms get treated bad that she gotta see the mans point of view...lol, that ain’t some shit u do
 
Germs said:
Little Mermaid
Pocahontas
Shriek
Almost every Disney movie

Pretty Woman
How Stella got her groove back

I could go on and on..

If anything, men have been fed to believe women ain’t shit..that’s why these lil boys outchea, becoming them
Click to expand...
pretty woman was about a chick who sells pussy and was a hoe but she still found a good dude with money to sweep her off her feet.

alot of chicks want this....be wreckless and it not be held against them



kinda like ciara when she got russell now she think she can talk
 
Germs said:
Women have not been taught to not need us..from the moment they are able to understand words. Women are bombarded with the notion that they need to find their Prince Charming, or that he’s out there waiting to save them...

With a Kiss, with chivilary, with a epic battle
Click to expand...

Women? no. Black Women??? Hell fuck yeah they are.
 
Last edited:
The Mad Titan said:
Lol those fairytale movies been irrelevant since the decade they were made in. Promce Charmin been washed. And I will say rightfully so. A lotta men fucked up and killed that fantasy. So to a degree I can understand part of the origin of the shift in thinking. Nut its only one part of the reason.

Lets ask how many of the ladies in here grew up being fed a disney fairytale
Click to expand...

@em or they won’t come
 
Germs said:
That’s besides the point fam..u don’t tell a woman who witness her moms get treated bad that she gotta see the mans point of view...lol, that ain’t some shit u do
Click to expand...
but i know this chick and she makes mountains from mole hills...everything is extreme...so i am not taking her word for shit.

and it wasnt that he hit her or anything....it was he came thru....paid some billls ...smashed and bounced.

i always told her...she dont know the whole story. but she took it as he treated her like shit.

but her mom could have been a side chick or cool with the nigga rolling out or kicking the nigga out. she dont know what agreement they had.
its not always what you think you see.
 
konceptjones said:
Black women ARE taught that "I don't need a man for shit" mentality. So... Now you're in your career, got the crib/apartment/condo, got the car, bank account, can be wherever you want to be at, watch go


Women? no. Black Women??? Hell fuck yeah they are.
Click to expand...
watch go?
is that a movie?
 
konceptjones said:
Black women ARE taught that "I don't need a man for shit" mentality. So... Now you're in your career, got the crib/apartment/condo, got the car, bank account, can be wherever you want to be at, watch go


Women? no. Black Women??? Hell fuck yeah they are.
Click to expand...

U see the problem with that, is if things white people created to conform women weren’t also affective with black women

Black women wouldn’t do skin lighting, and wear Brazilian weave to name a few..black girls don’t just ignore it..it’s aimed at girls..black girls want the same things all girls are conditioned to want..they’re not creatures, they’re human
 
lol Black women had like three different specials where they basically shitted on black men for white audiences. If that's the same special I'm thinking of, they had a chick from ATL talking about she couldn't find a black man in the area on her level. Chick was an administrative assistant or some shit at a school. Like, really, in ATL, ain't no niggas on that level huh?

shaq-face.jpg
 
I had a convo with my wife a while ago. Basically all this shit boils down to we had bad examples for how to deal with each other. How many good 2 parent households did we see growing up? The black family been broken up since what, the 60's?

Other cultures have their differences but I dont see them shittin on each other like we do. Its way outta hand now and we gotta stop this shit.
 
Last edited:
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top