What would you do if you were the son in this situation?

[mryounggun]

The son has a responsibility to carry on his pops legacy and his wishes

Oftentimes inheritance come w iron clad conditions…..

As far as I know, his pops didn't mention his wishes, in terms of how the money is spent once it was became the son's money. But you're right, often times they do come with ironclad conditions. And as far as we know, the father chose not to put any of those conditions in place, right? All we know is what's in the video. And the video mentioned nothing about any of that.

 

[Freeman]

Would depend on how much there is to go around and my personal relationship with them. If we cool and its not gonna put me out then I don't see why not. But if that takes up a significant amount of the inheritance they're gonna have to wait for homie they chose to die and hope he left them something.

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

As far as I know, his pops didn't mention his wishes, in terms of how the money is spent once it was became the son's money. But you're right, often times they do come with ironclad conditions. And as far as we know, the father chose not to put any of those conditions in place, right? All we know is what's in the video. And the video mentioned nothing about any of that.

They are implied because pops went out of his way to make sure they didn’t get his bread
So why would the son turn around and give them some of the bread …Pops made sure to not give them

 

[RandomOne]

their parents got divorced because the mom cheated on the dad. The sisters went with the mom because they liked the guy she cheated with better than their dad. The caller thinks it was because the stepdad could give them gifts and expensive things at a time when the father couldn't. The caller stayed with his dad because that was his dad

I didn't watch all of the video but I think some people aren't seeing this part

Mom cheated and the the sisters stayed with the mom because the step dad spoiled them

Now they want the brother to

 

[mryounggun]

They are implied because pops went out of his way to make sure they didn’t get his bread
So why would the son turn around and give them some of the bread …Pops made sure to not give them

He’s not giving them his father’s money. Because his father doesn’t have any money.

He’s giving them HIS money.

That fundamental point isn’t changing. Pops did what he wanted to do with his money. Salute to him. Now the son should do what he wants with HIS money.

 

[Matt123]

Depends on the relationship he has with his sisters, it’s his money now so it’s his decision what he wants to do with it.

 

[mryounggun]

Depends on the relationship he has with his sisters, it’s his money now so it’s his decision what he wants to do with it.

This is a very simple concept.

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

The money he got from his father how is that hard to understand

Why would u help out ur father’s enemies w the money he left you

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

Plus they trying to finesse their bro anyway

 

[The Lonious Monk]

I didn't say this before, because I tend to think about these sorts of things differently than most. But we have no information that suggests that his father's wishes were 'Don't give any of this money to your sisters'. And there are definitely ways he could have done that. If he has an estate and left money to anybody, that means he could have added any stipulation he wanted about how to the money is to be spent. But he chose not to do that.

The ONLY thing we know about the father's wishes as it relates to the money he had was 'When I die, the money goes to my son'.

it's an assumption that the father wanted his son to not give his sister's anything after he died.

He's not wrong either way. Because it's HIS money. But for me, his father's wishes about his own money become irrelevant when it's no longer his money.

Don't get me wrong. I agree with you. I would probably give the money.

I can just understand where he's coming from. He might be assuming, but I think, based on the facts (the father already refused to give his daughters money for their loans when he was alive and he made the choice not to leave any money to them when he died), it's a safe assumption.

 

[mryounggun]

The money he got from his father how is that hard to understand

Why would u help out ur father’s enemies w the money he left you

It’s not hard to understand. But that’s not what you keep saying. You keep referring to it as the father’s money for some reason.

If he got it from his father…that means it’s his money.

Nothing will change that.

 

[mryounggun]

Don't get me wrong. I agree with you. I would probably give the money.

I can just understand where he's coming from. He might be assuming, but I think, based on the facts (the father already refused to give his daughters money for their loans when he was alive and he made the choice not to leave any money to them when he died), it's a safe assumption.

I mean, I can see where he’s coming from too. This has never been about me not understanding his position.

 

[Matt123]

The money he got from his father how is that hard to understand

Why would u help out ur father’s enemies w the money he left you

His father personal grudge isn’t his grudge. Not saying he wasn’t right for having one but thats his grudge not his sons.

That’s why I say depends on his personal relationships with his sister and what he wants to do.

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

His father personal grudge isn’t his grudge. Not saying he wasn’t right for having one but thats his grudge not his sons.

That’s why I say depends on his personal relationships with his sister and what he wants to do.

But it is his grudge especially given the circumstances

 

[Matt123]

But it is his grudge especially given the circumstances

No it’s not.

Do you hold your ancestor's grudges….

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

No it’s not.

Do you hold your ancestor's grudges….



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[Air Dog]

Things picked up for the dad and he started doing well for himself. He tried to reach out to his daughters and form a relationship with them, but they weren't interested.

What would you do in this situation?

this is one of the most important parts right here

 

[Matt123]

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[BRIAN B.]

At the end of the day it’s the daddy s money
They ain’t fuck w the dad while he was living
If they did this wouldn’t be a situation cuz pops would have made sure they was straight

Fuck them

money doesn't have "owners", only "spenders"



possession is 9/10ths