OPINION What Age Is The Oldest/Youngest You’ll Date?

Duwop said:
I'm not talking about intelligence.

There's a cute ass girl that works here. Prolly like 23-26 at the absolute oldest. I speak to her in passing all the time.. Small talk.. Last week I was talking any about going to see Sinners, and she was excited about seeing the Minecraft movie.

Now I'll watch the Minecraft movie when my kids watch it. But imagine if I'm single and I was tryna hang with shorty.... And I say let's go see Sinners, and she say she wanna see Minecraft. Bruh me.... Personally. Imma feel old and silly as shit.
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The way I just laughed at this whole ass scenario.

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Duwop said:
I'm not talking about intelligence.

There's a cute ass girl that works here. Prolly like 23-26 at the absolute oldest. I speak to her in passing all the time.. Small talk.. Last week I was talking any about going to see Sinners, and she was excited about seeing the Minecraft movie.

Now I'll watch the Minecraft movie when my kids watch it. But imagine if I'm single and I was tryna hang with shorty.... And I say let's go see Sinners, and she say she wanna see Minecraft. Bruh me.... Personally. Imma feel old and silly as shit.
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I aint mad at that....I'm saying that the lil chick may seem young, may even act young at times, idk, but this just me projecting shorty's setup and existence she may be a cool vibe to someone over 40, maybe not you, but to knock her because of her age, I, wouldn't judge her off her age, more so on her character with me.

So what would make her any different from a woman that's 68 but look 40, would that be out of your range? She can say you're too young for her by your age? Would you feel that you were or would you feel that you could hang with a 68 year old Angela Bassett
 
And you know how a whole family be fine?

You 42, she 23..... You meet her moms...who also fine as fuck...and she's also 42 🤕


In fact, y'all have more mutual friends than you and little shorty.

Imagine that phone call

" Girl guess who fucking my daughter?"
 
Knock_Twice said:
I aint mad at that....I'm saying that the lil chick may seem young, may even act young at times, idk, but this just me projecting shorty's setup and existence she may be a cool vibe to someone over 40, maybe not you, but to knock her because of her age, I, wouldn't judge her off her age, more so on her character with me.

So what would make her any different from a woman that's 68 but look 40, would that be out of your range? She can say you're too young for her by your age? Would you feel that you were or would you feel that you could hang with a 68 year old Angela Bassett
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I'd smash, but i don't know if I wanna hang around her kids
 
Duwop said:
And you know how a whole family be fine?

You 42, she 23..... You meet her moms...who also fine as fuck...and she's also 42 🤕


In fact, y'all have more mutual friends than you and little shorty.

Imagine that phone call

" Girl guess who fucking my daughter?"
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At that age where you can hit the mama and daughter is where we are in life. What a time to be alive?

She choose you, she likes older men, the men her age play all day is what she's telling you. She need a "real" man lol.

Aye, bro, I don't know make the rules, I just report the news.
 
Duwop said:
I'm not talking about intelligence.

There's a cute ass girl that works here. Prolly like 23-26 at the absolute oldest. I speak to her in passing all the time.. Small talk.. Last week I was talking any about going to see Sinners, and she was excited about seeing the Minecraft movie.

Now I'll watch the Minecraft movie when my kids watch it. But imagine if I'm single and I was tryna hang with shorty.... And I say let's go see Sinners, and she say she wanna see Minecraft. Bruh me.... Personally. Imma feel old and silly as shit.
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I had no idea what Minecraft was until like 3 days ago when my son called me and said him and his homies are going to see Minecraft. I legit thought Fortnite and Minecraft was the same thing
 
Duwop said:
I'd smash, but i don't know if I wanna hang around her kids
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I know you would. Just like I would think you'll smash the younger chick if you were single. My question would be, who would you be incline to hang out/kick it with the most.

The 23-26 year old chick or 68 year old Angela Bassett without the kids?
 
Knock_Twice said:
At that age where you can hit the mama and daughter is where we are in life. What a time to be alive?

She choose you, she likes older men, the men her age play all day is what she's telling you. She need a "real" man lol.

Aye, bro, I don't know make the rules, I just report the news.
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You not gonna feel like a goofy when mom's say some slick shit about you liking little girls?

She might find the whole thing disgusting.

I saw a chick going off on social media cuz she was at a bar with her daughter and nigga she been knew for years was tryna shoot their shot.

I mean there were valid arguments on both sides.... But that ain't the kinda argument I'm tryna be in the middle of
. The whole shit was messy AF...

Funny..... hilarious.....I had tears in my eyes... But still messy.
 
Knock_Twice said:
I get what you're saying and that may be cool and all but to say younger chicks don't have the same mindset as a 44 year old woman is not accurate.

I think a man can have a conversation daily with any woman of age. This whole notion that only people in their age range can hold so call "intelligent" much better than those that are not in their age range is inaccurate.

Different things one may like may vary because age and that's with anybody. Everybody won't like the same thing in any age range. But to say you (not you) or men that's older can't hold a conversation with younger chicks is not true.

They're are some older women who are airheads and can't hold a conversation just like they're some young chicks who can't hold any either. They're some younger chicks who can and some older women who can.

Not sure what you and your older chicks would be so call talking about that you couldn't talk about with a younger chick

Weather is weather, news is news, gossip is gossip etc.
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It's not even just about intellect it's stages in life. For example me and bae are going on a lil mini vacay this weekend. We driving. Bae handled the travel arrangements. Picked the hotel, made the reservations and entertainment. What did I do? Took our cars in to get serviced. Bc im older that's the shit I worry about now. The younger person is naturally gon be more concerned with the fun shit when goin outa town. But me now im like shit need to be right before we leave so we can actually enjoy the entire trip with no surprises.

Age gaps ain't a problem but when you seriously date someone...not just trickin off and having fun, like seriously attempt at building a life....with someone that's TOO young, the youth and inexperience will show up in ways somebody 40+ should be well past and not feel the need to put up with lol
 
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Knock_Twice said:
I know you would. Just like I would think you'll smash the younger chick if you were single. My question would be, who would you be incline to hang out/kick it with the most.

The 23-26 year old chick or 68 year old Angela Bassett without the kids?
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68, I've always enjoyed flirting with older women. That hasn't changed. Especially the ones that gave up on niggas... They always call me a throwback.

Plus I have a huge ego, older women understand men better and will stroke your ego before younger ones.

If I hear "damn you smell good" it's more than likely someone 40+

Young chicks still all about themselves and got Niggaz throwing themselves at them... They haven't been able to detect quality as much. They still blinded by the glits and glamor
 
Duwop said:
And you know how a whole family be fine?

You 42, she 23..... You meet her moms...who also fine as fuck...and she's also 42 🤕


In fact, y'all have more mutual friends than you and little shorty.

Imagine that phone call

" Girl guess who fucking my daughter?"
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You might get checked once y'all realize y'all got mad friends in common.

"If you don't get yo old ass on up outta here!!! And stay away from my daughter!!!"
 
Duwop said:
You not gonna feel like a goofy when mom's say some slick shit about you liking little girls?

She might find the whole thing disgusting.

I saw a chick going off on social media cuz she was at a bar with her daughter and nigga she been knew for years was tryna shoot their shot.

I mean there were valid arguments on both sides.... But that ain't the kinda argument I'm tryna be in the middle of
. The whole shit was messy AF...

Funny..... hilarious.....I had tears in my eyes... But still messy.
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Personally, I'd be more incline if I'm serious about the lil chick to have a convo with her daddy out of respect if I see myself with the chick long term. I'ma sleezy ball but not that sleezy, but at that point, especially if she has her own apartment, I feel she's grown grown.

It may be different if she still staying with her parents. Her mama can't run her life. Mama gotta get herself some business. It can get messy in situations like that when the mama still wanna hang out with the daughter in th club...that's not good to begin with...

But nah, chick out here doing her thing, she young but she can bring peace and is a cool vibe, I wouldn't care about the age and her mama jokes, she'll be alright.
 
shutupGabi said:
It's not even just about intellect it's stages in life. For example me and bae are going on a lil mini vacay this weekend. We driving. Bae handled the travel arrangements. Picked the hotel, made the reservations and entertainment. What did I do? Made service appointments for our cars. Bc im older that's the shit I worry about now. The younger person is naturally gon be more concerned with the fun shit when goin outa town. But me now im like shit need to be right before we leave so we can actually enjoy the entire trip with no surprises.

Age gaps ain't a problem but when you seriously date someone...not just trickin off and having fun, like seriously attempt at building a life....with someone that's TOO young, the youth and inexperience will show up in ways somebody 40+ should be well past and not feel the need to put up with lol
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No doubt, there pros and cons with anything, inexperience can come into play, no doubt, but I feel that's with anyone at any age. It's a 1 time occurence or 2 times, maybe 3, but what about the other 67 times this young person made you feel good.
If the youngin has been on her shit for the most part within our time, those 1-3 times she may go left, I think I should be able to teach her or give her some guidance on how to deal with the situation.
Just my thoughts on it.
 
Knock_Twice said:
Personally, I'd be more incline if I'm serious about the lil chick to have a convo with her daddy out of respect if I see myself with the chick long term. I'ma sleezy ball but not that sleezy, but at that point, especially if she has her own apartment, I feel she's grown grown.

It may be different if she still staying with her parents. Her mama can't run her life. Mama gotta get herself some business. It can get messy in situations like that when the mama still wanna hang out with the daughter in th club...that's not good to begin with...

But nah, chick out here doing her thing, she young but she can bring peace and is a cool vibe, I wouldn't care about the age and her mama jokes, she'll be alright.
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Bruh, trust me. You don't wanna be that old nigga at the cook out sitting by yourself cuz you the same age as her Daddy.

One of my nieces gotta nigga my age.... The complete lack of respect he gets from the family would have me ready to throw hands if I was him.
 
Duwop said:
Bruh, trust me. You don't wanna be that old nigga at the cook out sitting by yourself cuz you the same age as her Daddy.

One of my nieces gotta nigga my age.... The complete lack of respect he gets from the family would have me ready to throw hands if I was him.
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I get it, but if that man happy, he couldn't care less what yall think of him for them 2 hrs. After he leave he's back in his zone and at peace with the niece.

Can't go through life worrying about what others may think or say when you're in a good space.
 
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