I understand the mentality behind it, for guys that do it. But i feel like in order to do it. You can’t embrace the norms of a relationship. Meaning how you view intimacy has to be from a unique perspective. A perspective that goes beyond ego and is more in-tuned with the collective. It requires a certain level of free spirit to see above that wall.
So I understand how people who see themselves as never being able to be cool with such a thing or feel a desire to look down and judge those who do. I understand why they feel that way too.
But it’s much like a gun, if you’re not responsible with it. It can lead to a lot of hurt or even death. Everyone shouldn’t have a gun just because you can. And everyone shouldn’t have a union like that, just because they feel like they can.
