For those who are in a long distance relationship or have been in a long distance relationship before. How do/did you handle trust?
If you have any stories, do share.
If you have any stories, do share.
Trust Issues and LDR
- Thread starter Eartha Clit
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Psycho.
Black đź–¤
đź‘‘The Fall Offđź‘‘
I try to be optimistic and give the benefit of the doubt. It can be a weakness in some sense and Ive been told that it's mine lol.
In retrospect, my intuition has been powerful as hell and when I ignore it, I wanna beat myself up if the things I suspected ended up being true. I admit when I do feel something's up, I sometimes start acting differently and begin to dissattach emotionally instead of speaking on it or confronting it. Then ofc THAT becomes another issue itself.
In retrospect, my intuition has been powerful as hell and when I ignore it, I wanna beat myself up if the things I suspected ended up being true. I admit when I do feel something's up, I sometimes start acting differently and begin to dissattach emotionally instead of speaking on it or confronting it. Then ofc THAT becomes another issue itself.
Never done it so idk.
Knock_Twice
2 Words
I treat it just like a short distance relationship.
The same principles applies to long distance relationships.
To me the only difference between long and short is that I can't get up in the middle of the night and pop up on yo ass, not that I would do that :relax:
With so much access to one another these days, all these platforms (for me) a long distance relationship can feel like a short distance relationship.
The same principles applies to long distance relationships.
To me the only difference between long and short is that I can't get up in the middle of the night and pop up on yo ass, not that I would do that :relax:
With so much access to one another these days, all these platforms (for me) a long distance relationship can feel like a short distance relationship.
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MzLyricist
How much better is it to get wisdom than gold!
i wouldn't dare do a long distance relationship with a guy I didn't trust. that's definitely a waste of time. trust is a MUST in that circumstance.
I gotta have the trust before I make that leap.
Black đź–¤
đź‘‘The Fall Offđź‘‘
A lil off subject, but when in a LDR, would you be ok with goin w/out communication for a day?
Nope. I ain’t okay going without communication for 4 hours. I just like to talk tho.
Allergens
Me I'm Supa Fly
If it’s a legit LDR that we both recognize as that, you gotta at least hit me wit a “I’m gonna be busy today but wanted to say hey”..something
But that’s only if we both saying that’s what it is, if we just established a bond but sayin it ain’t that deep. I don’t mind going week or so with either you or I checking in.
Do that on the weekends, that’ll be our thing..ya mean
But that’s only if we both saying that’s what it is, if we just established a bond but sayin it ain’t that deep. I don’t mind going week or so with either you or I checking in.
Do that on the weekends, that’ll be our thing..ya mean
Given he may be busy or whatever. I mean life happens. I’m totally understanding after I pop off.
Communication makes shit way better.
Communication makes shit way better.
IP360
Doctorate & Ph.D in Bootyology
Wasn't the jealous type.
I refused to drive myself crazy by allowing all these assumptions develop in my head, thinking they're up to something if they...
- don't answer my call
- don't respond to my text
- don't tell me where they're at all times
- don't call me back in a "timely" manner
And yes...hacking into their personal stuff is insecurity at it's finest. How can you say you trust someone by breaking into their shyt?? Makes no sense.
I refused to drive myself crazy by allowing all these assumptions develop in my head, thinking they're up to something if they...
- don't answer my call
- don't respond to my text
- don't tell me where they're at all times
- don't call me back in a "timely" manner
And yes...hacking into their personal stuff is insecurity at it's finest. How can you say you trust someone by breaking into their shyt?? Makes no sense.
904LetsGo
New Member
The one time i tried it I handled it terribly. I was insecure and had a measurable dose of "bitch nigga" in me so I was jealous and trying to hack her shit. Swore she was cheating and couldnt hack her shit so I dealt with it by smashing a gang of you hoe niggas ole ladies (facts btw). Come to find out she really WAS cheating. But I was still measurably a bitch nigga for worrying about what a female do with her body. Thats shit I can't control. And so I learned to put that energy towards shit I got control over.
