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Dwayne said:
Prime example of a woman would sacrifice her family for happiness.

She’s such a loser and the folks in the comment section are terrible people.



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her life obviously was in shambles

but u don't know what that chick was really dealing with to be judging her 🙁
 
Mr BFK said:
her life obviously was in shambles

but u don't know what that chick was really dealing with to be judging her 🙁
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This. I think its weird for a chick to just up and move away from her family, but it doesn't sound like she abandoned them. She says her relationship with her husband is the best it's ever been. It sounds like some older dude trapped her while she was still young and trying to establish herself, and now she's gotten to a point where she feels like she needs to accomplish her goals while she can. As long as she's still there for her kids to some capacity, I can't bash her too much.
 
excuses.

She just up and left to another state.

That’s text book abandonment.

I would shame a man for this type of action and I’m shaming her.

She built a new life for herself and was happy to do it.
 
Dwayne said:
excuses.

She just up and left to another state.

That’s text book abandonment.

I would shame a man for this type of action and I’m shaming her.

She built a new life for herself and was happy to do it.
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It's not abandonment if she's still in their lives. I wouldn't want my wife doing that, but if it works for their family, who am I to judge. It's not like she moved away to participate in freakoffs. She's getting a degree and building a career. If she then takes that, rejoins her family, and uses what she earns for the better of her family, what will you say then?
 
Saw
Freeman said:
Whats up?
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Duwop said:
Go for it
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So I’ve learned in spirituality so far that consistent themes happen because there’s something you’re supposed to understand about it.

Heres the scenario. Lately, and only with women. Friends, associates, family, and co workers.

Consistently have misunderstood minor gestures of empathy and compassion. As deception, disdain, and disinterest.

And each time, exactly, the next day or so afterwards. They seek clarification and I tell them what my intention was. They all say, oh, I thought you did that because of this.

I say, no, why would you think that. And they all literally have said. “That’s what I would have thought if I said or did that”

I understand that’s projection. But this particular dynamic is only happening to me with women, and that’s all their exact response so it’s a clear pattern that’s occurring across my life.

What’s the thing I’m supposed to understand here?
 
RusselWilsonJr said:
Saw


So I’ve learned in spirituality so far that consistent themes happen because there’s something you’re supposed to understand about it.

Heres the scenario. Lately, and only with women. Friends, associates, family, and co workers.

Consistently have misunderstood minor gestures of empathy and compassion. As deception, disdain, and disinterest.

And each time, exactly, the next day or so afterwards. They seek clarification and I tell them what my intention was. They all say, oh, I thought you did that because of this.

I say, no, why would you think that. And they all literally have said. “That’s what I would have thought if I said or did that”

I understand that’s projection. But this particular dynamic is only happening to me with women, and that’s all there response so it’s a clear pattern that’s occurring across my life.

What’s the thing I’m supposed to understand here?
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You're probably over thinking it. It's okay for people to misunderstand you. Doesn't seem like there's a deeper meaning to anything. Could just be your delivery or like you said they're projecting. 🤷🏿‍♂️
 
Freeman said:
You're probably over thinking it. It's okay for people to misunderstand you. Doesn't seem like there's a deeper meaning to anything. Could just be your delivery or like you said they're projecting. 🤷🏿‍♂️
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Thanks bro
 
Niggas just hating to hate. If you were born around when mlk died I don't want to hear your opinions on drake or afro beats. Stay out the chat.
 
Freeman said:
Niggas just hating to hate. If you were born around when mlk died I don't want to hear your opinions on drake or afro beats. Stay out the chat.
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Great, so then:

You call that weak ass shit "afro beats"??? So you just outchea big uppin' Twinkie soft ho nigga bars and soulless colonizer afrikaners beats???
 
konceptjones said:
Great, so then:

You call that weak ass shit "afro beats"??? So you just outchea big uppin' Twinkie soft ho nigga bars and soulless colonizer afrikaners beats???
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I @Dwayne specifically and was minding my own business. Nobody trying to get you to like anything. Fuck off.
 
Freeman said:
Someone give him an lol already.

Enough.
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You posted it publicly, anyone that sees it and listens to them colonizer afrikaner beats can quote you on it and reply. If it was really just for @Dwayne to hear, you would have DM'ed him and had the convo privately.

But you didn't. And now that someone points out the shit is soft and soulless, you mad.

But fuck it. Have at it. Do you and alladat. Good day to you sir.
 
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