The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
You know when we see those shows with the paternity tests, we usually just see one side - men that don't want to be fathers either rejoicing because they find out they aren't or being panned because they find out they are. There's another side to it though.
It's gotta be soul crushing to bond with a child, feel like he/she is yours, and then have the rug pulled out from you. I know in some cases, if your name is on the birth certificate you can still be made to pay child support and all that even if the child isn't yours. I wonder if access to the child works like that too or if the mother can decide to completely remove you from the child's life on a whim if it's revealed you're not the real father.
It's gotta be soul crushing to bond with a child, feel like he/she is yours, and then have the rug pulled out from you. I know in some cases, if your name is on the birth certificate you can still be made to pay child support and all that even if the child isn't yours. I wonder if access to the child works like that too or if the mother can decide to completely remove you from the child's life on a whim if it's revealed you're not the real father.