it's fine if that's you, but why fault him for not having your reaction? when he's the one who experienced the shit.
because as a man it makes me angry to even think of another man touch me like that.....
like angry to the point i wanna react violently.....
it makes me think about those stories you hear as a kid of big muscular men raping smaller men (or kids in my imagination as a kid) in jail...
the very image terry portrayed in friday after next,....like as a man, when they scare you straight from prison....what they describe is someone who will overpower you... so this "toxic masculinity" being attacked is often a reaction to fear.....
it's a defense mechanism.. every man tries to appear as tough as possible so that they won't be victimized...
that's the reason why a lot of guys get big and lift weights really heavy.. learn how to fight..defend themselves....
and here you have this big muscular nigga... who plays the very embodiment of a man who not only isn't supposed to be fucked he got his start playing the aggressor harassing another man, and i was played for laughs, yet this nigga getting harrassed.... ny a little ole white man....
conventional judgement says whip his ass...
but the dynamic of power play out, and to terry real power isn't those muscles and that intimidating physique he posses.....if that was real power he would have destroyed that man....
what that man demonstrated over terry was real power....
and to an average man we're going to naturally resent that.. because we still rely on our physical strength to defend us.....we can't envision a situation where that would fail us... dude grabs your ass or your dick, that nigga goes to sleep.....
i unno.... it's just pretty deep, and i see i'm rambling...
but yea it's ironic....
and it's infuriating because if as a man u feel confident in your strength to defend you and here's a man with more physical strength than many of us and it failed him...
to us that's scary, and most men face something they're afraid of with anger resentment and rage...
i don't care who you are... men are afraid of getting raped, so yes we are very angry to even the idea of man rape....and that's why dude will blindly kill a kid if they think their family member got raped.....
the only way most men know how to deal with sexual assault is with rage and violence....take that away, and it fucks our heads up
