The Scenario: Moving in with someone who owns their home.

[Loquacious]

The Scenario: Jackie got a house in 1999. She's being paying on the house for a few years. Then , she met Todd and they ended up getting serious and the discussion about him moving in popped up. He didn't want to move in because he said it is her house and he rather they get something together that's THEIRS. Jackie, however, doesn't necessarily want to move and also doesn't have an issue with considering the house theirs as long as he puts in.

What are your thoughts?

 

[Lord Nemesis]

How long she got left on her mortgage?

 

[Chicity]

Tell Todd to keep his own place. Even if they serious, nothing wrong with having 2 places if they can afford it

One can never have too much real estate

 

[Hater Hearst Helmsley]

Tell Todd to keep his own place. Even if they serious, nothing wrong with having 2 places if they can afford it

One can never have too much real estate

I'm leaning this way

 

[Dwayne]

Get your name on it and it’s for both of y’all.

Real simple

 

[5th Letter]

The Scenario: Jackie got a house in 1999. She's being paying on the house for a few years. Then , she met Todd and they ended up getting serious and the discussion about him moving in popped up. He didn't want to move in because he said it is her house and he rather they get something together that's THEIRS. Jackie, however, doesn't necessarily want to move and also doesn't have an issue with considering the house theirs as long as he puts in.

What are your thoughts?

Todd is right. No man should ever move in with a woman. Either she moves in with the man or they get a place together.

 

[Loquacious]

Todd is right. No man should ever move in with a woman. Either she moves in with the man or they get a place together.

Why not?

 

[5th Letter]

Why not?

Because when shit hits the fan “ours” become “mine”...

 

[Ghost313]

Rent out both their places and get a new spot together. No matter how much he put into that home, it was started by her

 

[Loquacious]

Because when shit hits the fan “ours” become “mine”...

Not if his name’s on it.

 

[DOS_patos]

Until my name on the mortgage......I'll keep my own spot.

The person moving in can be kicked out very easy.

 

[aka_og]

even if his name gets put on them papers - she picked the house on her own - its hers

get a place together and either sell the old spots or rent them out

 

[DOS_patos]

It's crazy how times have changed.

Everyone either has to or wants to protect themselves very early.

There was a time when you trust people until they show you otherwise...It seems now people must prove they are good.

 

[AZTG]

Is the crib dope? Thats really all I care about here.

 

[Chicity]

It's crazy how times have changed.

Everyone either has to or wants to protect themselves very early.

There was a time when you trust people until they show you otherwise...It seems now people must prove they are good.

Halfway investing is the new norm

 

[Old Man Cain]

Get something in writing on rules and regulations and for rent/bills

 

[mryounggun]

It ain’t even that deep. I’d prolly just move in.

 

[loud-ninja]

She can keep the house. I dont what anything she earned before meeting me. If I moved in with her and owned my own house, I would rent my spot out if she wants to stay in hers. If we broke up, I got places I can go if my house currently has people in it. I could find a new temp spot easily, less than a week. That is why it is important for both partners to be able to support themselves and not depend on others for your money.

 

[Dwayne]

It ain’t even that deep. I’d prolly just move in.

It really ain’t.

 

[loud-ninja]

It's crazy how times have changed.

Everyone either has to or wants to protect themselves very early.

There was a time when you trust people until they show you otherwise...It seems now people must prove they are good.

That is because people started to wise up on the statistics of successful marriages. That and since women can work now, they have more choices and dont need to depend on others for money.