The Queen of Accountability is running wild out here....

mryounggun said:
The unfortunate part is that I don't think he's willing to consider the fact that MAYBE there is an aspect of this that he isn't understanding. Because his replies still keep missing the point.
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I think you all are confusing me not agreeing with you all with me not "getting it." There's a difference.

I explained it. It's up to you all if you want to accept that. Won't change my opinion of that situation.
 
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Mister Breeze said:
I think you all are confusing me not agreeing with you all with me not "getting it." There's a difference.

I explained it. It's up to you all if you want to accept that. Won't change my opinion of that situation.
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That's the thing: What I said isn't something that you can disagree with.

I'm TELLING you how some of the other people on ABW are perceiving you based on the things you've said. They've been TELLING you why they perceive you that way. It's not really up for debate.

You just reject it for some reason, choosing instead to believe it's something else, other than what people are blatantly telling you. All niggas are telling you is why it's off-putting to hear an educator say some of the things you say.

That's what I mean when I say that you don't seem to get it.

But whatever. This'll be my last post about the subject. I'm gonna go back to watching you niggas talk past each other - whether purposely or otherwise.

Salute.
 
mryounggun said:
That's the thing: What I said isn't something that you can disagree with.

I'm TELLING you how some of the other people on ABW are perceiving you based on the things you've said. They've been TELLING you why they perceive you that way. It's not really up for debate.

You just reject it for some reason, choosing instead to believe it's something else, other than what people are blatantly telling you. All niggas are telling you is why it's off-putting to hear an educator say some of the things you say.

That's what I mean when I say that you don't seem to get it.

But whatever. This'll be my last post about the subject. I'm gonna go back to watching you niggas talk past each other - whether purposely or otherwise.

Salute.
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Man, please. It's the same two dudes - one Prince of the Simps and one mod clown - saying the same broken record over and over.

I'm not rejecting anything. I've made it clear a bunch of times: There's nothing I wouldn't do as a EDUCATOR to support young men (or women) in that arena to succeed.

However....I don't take my work home with me, and at home, OUTSIDE of my work, I wouldn't spend my FREE time, energy, and resources behind children I personally didn't father myself just to be with a woman. If I adopted a child, that's different.

I - ME, PERSONALLY - would never put myself in that position simply because I know the risk isn't worth the reward to ME....if the relationship goes sour, if the kid won't stop bucking, etc. That's not my version of a happy life.

Those are MY views. Only a silly muhfucka would hold my profession against that. I could be a cop, lawyer, judge, whatever productive person of society...still shouldn't matter how I separate my PERSONAL life from my PROFESSIONAL life.

That seems to be the real obtuse thinking around here; some of y'all can't - or won't - see the difference.

You’re more than welcome to tip on out. It’s been nothing but deflections in here.

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Duwop said:
A married man being upset that there's no single women without kids is ridiculously hilarious.
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The part that kills me tho I see dudes in their 30s pushing 40 looking for women with no kids. Knowing the older women get that bio clock get smaller. Older you get the more folks have kids. But I do think it easy to find someone with no kids
 
Mister Breeze said:
1) Two different scenarios. Being an educator is a shit-ton different from being a PARENT. Being an educator is a 8-3, 8-4 job, but they go AWAY from you after that, and it’s only for a few years while they’re in the same school you work at.
Parenting is 24/7/365/insert xxx years here, and you don’t get paid for it. In fact, quite the opposite….where you SPEND MONEY to be a parent. To feed, clothe, house a kid that’s not even your own DNA. Nah. It’s no good, no bueno, and your equivalence was super false.

2) Like I’ve said dozens of times, if your first reaction to anything I say that you don’t agree with is to attack my career, and not whatever point I made, THAT’s when it sounds personal. You don’t like my comment, fine. Attack the MESSAGE, not the MESSENGER.
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Ok so minus you being a teacher. You don’t see any positives for the role of a step parent?
 
Mister Breeze said:
Not really.

I get that you do. Sounds like I hit a nerve.
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It’s no nerve that you hit. I never had a step dad my parents were married until one died.

All I’m saying is we keep talking about fathers are needed in the home but when niggas want to be fathers they weak. Also take into account how many step dads have previous kids.

Niggas gotta grow up. And no that does not mean everybody should try to be step dads. But I’m not calling niggas wack for it.
 
Mister Breeze said:
Because it’s for suckas.

Putting your time, energy, and money into a kid that’s not yours, that can use that “you ain’t my dad” line when shit gets too real, and that the mom can get up and roll at anytime, take the kid, and leave, KNOWING you’ve put in effort to bond with the kid…..yeah…

That’s sucker shit.
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Lol, this happens to biological parents as well.

How many stories we hear of a parent using their child as a shield against the other parent? How many stories have we heard where the kid is corrupted by the bitter parent and the kid is disrespectful towards the other parent. How many stories have we heard where one parent will completely relocate with the child with out the other parent knowledge or permission?

Some step-parents are actually better than the biological parent. Some kids are accepting of the step parent . I have seen where the child/children loves the step parent like they were their biological parent. That is generally due to the biological parent being absent or is a terrible influence to be around.

It's cool if people dont want to be a step parent. But it's not black and white. That's why i can't agree with you saying it is for "suckas".
 
loud-ninja said:
Lol, this happens to biological parents as well.

How many stories we hear of a parent using their child as a shield against the other parent? How many stories have we heard where the kid is corrupted by the bitter parent and the kid is disrespectful towards the other parent. How many stories have we heard where one parent will completely relocate with the child with out the other parent knowledge or permission?

Some step-parents are actually better than the biological parent. Some kids are accepting of the step parent . I have seen where the child/children loves the step parent like they were their biological parent. That is generally due to the biological parent being absent or is a terrible influence to be around.

It's cool if people dont want to be a step parent. But it's not black and white. That's why i can't agree with you saying it is for "suckas".
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Like the only thing that was unique was a kid saying you’re not my dad. No parent would give af what a kid says when they about to be on punishment
 
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