Yo..so today I found out what was the deal. Member I said that we had arrived at a urgent event, dude who asked me about my ankle. He asked me in a joking yet concerned way, like “hey man, why you moving so slow”..this place is a pretty laid back place as far as I can tell and the guys rib each other alot, so I’m thinking dude was doing the same.
So when I commented I didn’t think anything of it. Apparently dude communicated that he meant it in a serious and critical manner, so my answer to him, struck him as me having an attitude. I told my coordinator. Dude,..I don’t know that dude. The tone i picked up was not serious, but if dude was serious, that ain’t no problem. He said dude thought I felt away about him. I told him again, I don’t even know dude.
Didn’t know dude had a problem with me or thought I had a problem wit him. And besides all that, he’s my superior, he has the right to be openly critical of me, so even if he felt that way, he coulda just expressed it to me,..I’m not opposed to someone doing that. I told dude, if in the future someone tells you I did something that crossed them or whatever, just ask if they expressed that to me. It ain’t even that serious.
I’m not the type of nigga..I ain’t say I’m not that type of nigga but something to that affect. And then the coordinator was like..yea based off my experiences wit you I can tell you ain’t like that, but I knew dude longer than I known you so when dude said what he said, I feel like he wouldn’t have jumped the gun if he didn’t take it serious.
And I’m like bro..I don’t know y’all well enough to even know when dude serious.