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The fact of the matter is, no matter how savy and unfuckwitable you think you are when it comes to human interaction, there's always something you don't know about another person, no matter how well you think you know them and that's what makes people feel so insecure when this topic comes up. I don't really see the problem with somebody sowing wild oats especially in their youth, when they're not seeing anybody. As long as they're being safe during those activities I don't see the issue and I certainly don't see how it reflects your morale being or how trustworthy you are. It's not for everybody but I feel like that's what youth is for, exploration and making mistakes, unless it's really relevant to a relationship in the present just let sleeping dogs lie. Cus most people egos just can't handle that kind of stuff.
 
TheMasterKey said:
So you don't take a person's past into consideration? @AP21
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you know me

mr. not black and white

i think people can learn from past experiences and become better people, but i acknowledge that there is the possibility they may not.

if a person has a history of living check to check due to ignorance of how money works...thats one thing, but if there situation is due to just poor decision after poor decision and they dont want to change, e.g. a chick who blows rent money to go on a girls trip...then thats another story

in one instance, the chick just isnt knowledgeable, which, if you have the patience and she is willing, you can correct this or assist...but if she bent on trying to impress people she dont even like, then im afraid, she might be a lost cause
 
AP21 said:
you know me

mr. not black and white

i think people can learn from past experiences and become better people, but i acknowledge that there is the possibility they may not.

if a person has a history of living check to check due to ignorance of how money works...thats one thing, but if there situation is due to just poor decision after poor decision and they dont want to change, e.g. a chick who blows rent money to go on a girls trip...then thats another story

in one instance, the chick just isnt knowledgeable, which, if you have the patience and she is willing, you can correct this or assist...but if she bent on trying to impress people she dont even like, then im afraid, she might be a lost cause
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I need a yes or no fam. Do you take a person's past into consideration?
 
AP21 said:
its a variable...so i guess to answer your question, yea i suppose
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But you're saying it's wrong for us to judge people for their past, but if that's the case then their past should never be taken into consideration, no matter what they did.
 
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