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Knowreasonforpeace said:
I need opinions on something, but ima give you guys a little backstory first.

Anytime i buy my son anything, his sister (different dads) always feels some kind of way. Partly because she barely has a relationship with her dad, and how me and my son interact with eachother. She told her mother once that she feels uncomfortable around me because of it. I took it upon myself to start including her in things i do with my son and been giving her money. Her dad becomes upset after the daughter tells him everything 8 been doing for her, and tells her mother tontell me to stop cause im not her dad.

So my question is should i respect his wishes? Or keep looking out for the daughter? Their mother says to forget what he says since he's practically a deadbeat, but still. Opinions? Suggestions?
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Aye fuck that nigga. He should be happy you including his child into shit. What a sad sorry mf.
 
Knowreasonforpeace said:
Thats not the case as far as him not being able. Im not worried about a warning cause it wasnt said directly to me. Things get lost in translation in situations like this so like i said im wait until im approached. That'll be the end of it good or bad. As father i understand if he feel a way about things, but the niggas a deadbeat and it affects his daughter in a very bad way. I have to see at times, so just let her build up hatred towards me and other men? How will she treat her brother once she reaches a breaking point? This not a black and white situation.
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If you are in the same household as the daughter. Then no. Keep doing what you are doing. This makes your family better when you have a better relationship with her. He is not going to see that.

If she is not, Then yes. Respect his wishes. Fall back to a certain extent. He may be a deadbeat but the worst thing you can do is interfere with a child and their parent. No matter the situation. He is thinking with his pride. You dont know what is being discussed between him and the mother. She could be playing both sides. So if you want to still be kind to the girl. Do little things for her like contribute to gifts on birthdays and special occasions. Keep everything tied to your son receiving something too.

Ultimately if any conflict comes from this. The mother needs to step up and squash it. You should only be background noise.
 
My sons birthday is today. I am excited. I am going to get his baseball glove for the new season. He is getting NBA2K, chargers for his xbox controllers, and maybe some new shoes.
 
He is your son. You love him. I always hug and close talk with my son. I am a super lovey-dovey father with my kids and even my nieces and nephews.
Showing affection towards your kids is natural. I get it from my father. My mother is affectionate but she does it more to embarrass you. Like call you her big baby and make coo-coo sounds.

My wife is somewhat the opposite. She does not like to kiss in public. The rare times she does show affection in public is when some chick is checking me out. But she gets it from her mother and father. They dont show affection alot. Not in public at all. They hug but that is it.
 
caddo man said:
He is your son. You love him. I always hug and close talk with my son. I am a super lovey-dovey father with my kids and even my nieces and nephews.
Showing affection towards your kids is natural. I get it from my father. My mother is affectionate but she does it more to embarrass you. Like call you her big baby and make coo-coo sounds.

My wife is somewhat the opposite. She does not like to kiss in public. The rare times she does show affection in public is when some chick is checking me out. But she gets it from her mother and father. They dont show affection alot. Not in public at all. They hug but that is it.
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Yeah I try to be affectionate with my son, even more so with his mother gone, but some stuff is still wierd

However he at the age where the class has to give everyone a VD card so I don't it so weird to get one from me

Im a add a nh when I give it to him tho cause I know it'll piss @AP21 off
 
ChiCity said:
Yeah I try to be affectionate with my son, even more so with his mother gone, but some stuff is still wierd

However he at the age where the class has to give everyone a VD card so I don't it so weird to get one from me

Im a add a nh when I give it to him tho cause I know it'll piss @AP21 off
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so sad you are having homosexual thoughts when thinking about giving a gift to your son
 
Knowreasonforpeace said:
Thats not the case as far as him not being able. Im not worried about a warning cause it wasnt said directly to me. Things get lost in translation in situations like this so like i said im wait until im approached. That'll be the end of it good or bad. As father i understand if he feel a way about things, but the niggas a deadbeat and it affects his daughter in a very bad way. I have to see at times, so just let her build up hatred towards me and other men? How will she treat her brother once she reaches a breaking point? This not a black and white situation.
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Fuck that do what you been doing
 
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