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AP21 said:
That shit needs some punctuation

But to answer the question

I see it from both sides although I tend to side with the dude because he told you from jump what the deal was. Why don't you just wait to have a child with someone who wants to have a child with you. Chicks need to start taking dudes at their word.

If he basically telling you he don't wanna deal with you under no circumstances if a child gets involved, trust him that's here telling the truth and not trying some reverse psychology on you.
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I hate to be that guy but why do I have to tell a woman I don't want a child. Protection is a two way street or even better I am not messing with her because I know she wants a child and I don't and in modern times you know whether you want it or not the government is going to make you pay. Why put your future in other people's hands. She say she is on birth control so you still have unprotected sex with her? That is a risk that shouldn't be taken unless you want to deal with the ramifications.
 
Kandy said:
I never understood being in a mans face all cheesy and shit.
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I think she might have some underlying disorder because it comes off as an obsessive need to be liked or something. I'm a nice dude, and I'll have small talk. But not all day everyday, especially not when I'm busy. Plus I think she likes the male attention and it be borderline inappropriate. I'm cool. But I guess I'm the bad guy now lol
 
Judge Dread said:
I hate to be that guy but why do I have to tell a woman I don't want a child. Protection is a two way street or even better I am not messing with her because I know she wants a child and I don't and in modern times you know whether you want it or not the government is going to make you pay. Why put your future in other people's hands. She say she is on birth control so you still have unprotected sex with her? That is a risk that shouldn't be taken unless you want to deal with the ramifications.
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If you don't say it, then you operate under the premise of assumptions.

Make it clear and plain and the onus is on her and off you

Or the other way around because I know some niggas that just detest condoms when they sleeping with randos. The chick should make sure the dude is strapped. I know condoms are getting thinner and thinner, but you better check he didn't slide that shit off
 
AP21 said:
If you don't say it, then you operate under the premise of assumptions.

Make it clear and plain and the onus is on her and off you

Or the other way around because I know some niggas that just detest condoms when they sleeping with randos. The chick should make sure the dude is strapped. I know condoms are getting thinner and thinner, but you better check he didn't slide that shit off
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Ultimately it is on a woman but plenary of men have put their lives in women's hands when it comes to having children. It is just not very smart to do that if you don't want kids.
 
Me and my bm aint plan on having a kid i didnt want one we were not dating like that. But we went raw and dealt with it. I knew from jump if its mine im there. Bum shit not to deal with consequences
 
HellCzar said:
Me and my bm aint plan on having a kid i didnt want one we were not dating like that. But we went raw and dealt with it. I knew from jump if its mine im there. Bum shit not to deal with consequences
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But you were man enough to deal with the consequences of your actions. You knew it was a possibility and you made a choice.
 
Judge_Judah said:
There's this young white woman (blacl bf/mixed child) that works in my office. She only been workong here a few month. But she is pretty and most guys she comes on contact with be straight simping. I be keeping it short and to the point and unless it's work realted, I really don't talk to her.

So I guess she feels some type of way about that because she used to be all in my fave trying to have unnecessary conversations, but at work I be too busy for all that. What is wrong with people bruh? Lol
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Humans mayne.

Like I can't stand it when I'm in line, and the person in front of me feels the need to wanna hold a convo.
 
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