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Judge_Judah said:
Knock a savage...
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BNE said:
everything between the 2 of y'all is w/e but when u bring a kid into it, that's reckless af of both adult parties.

kids being introduced to a revolving door of dudes smashing their mom is not good imo.
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Who's fault is it that the kid is involved though, so mama is not supposed to smash and only smash dudes she's with that are in a relationship with her?

Every chick that has a kid(s), doesn't introduce their kid(s) to that dude, I would think that the kid comes into play after they, the dude and the woman, have made it known that they go together or on some type of commitment path together
 
Judge_Judah said:
Aye @Bum From Bmore got a question.

Seeing how you were so up front in these chicks you dealt with, what percentage of those situations ended because the woman caught feelings or flipped up and got salty and stopped messing with you cuz it was reciprocated?
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i think only two chicks caught legit feelings for me......the rest kinda understood my logic....

i know i've caught feelings before and it was the same result.....i've definitely stopped talking to people cuz i didn't like being in my feelings....

but most chicks were content on it just being a fling, as i've always been a fun person to drink and hang out with....i was always doing something or into something....so if i hooked up with a chick for that day, and it wasn't the first time, they typically understood it was just a thing for that moment.....

there were a few who were insulted or whatever at my outlook, but they never made a big deal about it... it was more so a few smart ass remarks, and i never heard from them again.....

funny enough if i ever bumped into them it was always love....
 
Knock_Twice said:
This was a response to if the chick is inviting a dude to their child's b-day party.

If you as a dude go to that bday party, you and that chick go together or you leading her on.
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Hanging out with her child tho...what if the child becomes attached to you? Id never let my child meet someone Im in no way are serious about or care about. Can't bring just any ol body round your kids. But if you find one who does...:mybad:
 
BNE said:
idk where u got this from.

I'm saying that it's reckless to introduce guys you are not even in a relationship with to ur kids. my opinion on this is aligned with most of the advice I've seen for single parents. introduce the kid to the person you're involved with only when a future with them is an identified and likely possibility.

if you're introducing people you're simply fucking or don't even know where you stand with to your child, that's reckless imo.

I said nothing about who the mother can smash. that's not my business or my interest. she can smash the whole village if she wants.

doesn't mean she gotta introduce the whole village to the kid though.
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Well for starters:

A. I got that from @AP21 , he the one that said in his example, He used a chick inviting a dude to her child's bday party
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I said that I would go, and when I do go, me and that woman still aint together, I'm just going for the invite and company, cake and ice cream, and shoot basketball wit lil bud bud Lol (i'm sorry, Lol I am) but it's the truth, I don't think that invite should trap a dude into making that chick his gf just cuz he attended the bday party. (that just my thought)


B. I agree with you on the mama smashing who she wants, I added that I think she should introduce the kid to the dude when they are both, the mama and dude, they both agree, that they are on a solid platform together, it's been said and understood that this is what they both want. Again, going back to Exhibit A, see @AP21 example, he the one said in his example, if a chick invited you to her child's bday party, would you go
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so obviously that chick is inviting/introducing her kid(s) to a dude she's not in a relationship with. Sooo is she wrong for inviting the dude in his example?
 
Knock_Twice said:
This was a response to if the chick is inviting a dude to their child's b-day party.

If you as a dude go to that bday party, you and that chick go together or you leading her on.
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holy fuck......talk about hurt feelings....


damn, you just reminded me of one of the most inexplicable stories of my life.....

like to this day i don't understand how this shit even happened... but...it happened....

okay, there was this co-worker chick at tsa.. cool ass chick.....not really my type(which is funny, cuz alll my coworkers swear my wife look like her...i don't see it), but we were cool...not even like flirty cool.... just platonic ass cool chick cool.....

she had her boyfriends n shit, i had my chicks i talked to....our whole little friendship never once ventured into the even awkwardly kinda like eachother stage... there was nothing but us just being cool.....

well at the time i had no car, and she had a suspended license, and we lived like 15mins from each other...so she'd let me drive her car


yea i was driving her car like it was mines....


only rules was

n fuckign chicks in it....take her to and from work every day, and be available for laundry or grocery shopping.....

everybody around us said we might as well be in a relationship.....i was like, naw b, that's the homie, it ain't like that......


but EVERYBODY maintained it looked like that.....


i'm like naw, i don't roll with her like that, she don't roll with me liek that, we just cool....

but cuz of the car situation....the shit was just crazy......

then there's be stuff like..her kid sick at school, she at work, i'm home on a off day,......

so yea i gotta go get her kid from school, and chill with the little kid till she get off work......

shit like that.....

it got a bit much.....

what was crazy was i was bouncing at the time too,, and some nights when i get off, another one of our co-workers would hit me up like.."yo go home and get some sleep, i'll take shorty to work"

her shift started at 330am....so i mean i'm getting off at 2am, already had a few drinks.....that call was a godsend....


well, she started getting pissed cuz she felt like the co-worker shouldn't be taking her to work, i should....i got her car....


she started making it an issue...

then one day, the coworker hit me like he gonna take her, i was like bet and went to sleep, the co-worker got to her house, and she was like no D coming to get me....he like u talk to him, cuz i told him i got you....and she started blowing my phone up.....
nigga i'm knocked out....

but she mad reckless on my answering machine...

so i took her car to the car wash, filled up the tank...drove that shit to her house, and put the keys in the mailbox with a note saying "u don't worry about me , i won't worry about you, enjoy life"

i was done...

yooooooooo

why like a few weeks later she call me on some

"my daughter would really like to see you at her birthday party...she asked me several times were you coming, i didn't know what to say"

:tuh::tuh::tuh::tuh::tuh::tuh::tuh::tuh:
 
BNE said:
she's absolutely wrong for inviting the dude. who invites a fuck buddy to their kid's bday?
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Come on now, women invite side niggas to baby showers
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Inviting a fuck buddy is the norm. The fuck buddy even gets lil bud bud an out-fit/gift some put a few dollars on the party.

Where you been at?
 
BNE said:
she's absolutely wrong for inviting the dude. who invites a fuck buddy to their kid's bday?
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or she is going on the vibe that he really likes her more than he does

but...im saving my keystrokes
 
Knock_Twice said:
Come on now, women invite side niggas to baby showers
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Inviting a fuck buddy is the norm. The fuck buddy even gets lil bud bud an out-fit/gift some put a few dollars on the party.

Where you been at?
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naw that's stupid, i ain't going to no kid party of a chick i'm smashing unless i want to be a force in that kid life
 
BNE said:
even if that were the case, introducing a man or woman you're involved with to your kids based off a vibe is reckless.
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i was gon type out this long winded response, but im honestly not that vested b/c i know where this convo is going

so

respectfully, im'a just go back to watching the wire and eating this popcorn from watching ya'll see his trap and walking right into it
 
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