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Knock_Twice said:
I'm just asking breh, barbershop talk breh. I aint saying what I think is right, nor wha you or anybody else think is wrong. just a different view we bring to the table.

Chime in breh.
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brah, you are saying what you feel is right by suggesting that everybody else is tripping lol

like i said, i know how this convo is gonna go...they are saving me keystrokes
 
Bum From Bmore said:
if u go to a wedding with a chick, you're going to a social gathering where the centerpiece is love and a future together...

most people who go to weddings get really caught up in the occasion....

it's romantic...like intimately romantic....

weddings are also very personal... if she's going this is obviously a person she fucks with heavy, and really wants to see.....and as she sees hem she's presenting you as well.....

whether it's family or a close friend, you accompany her to a wedding, you are being presented to those she cares about as someone she really cars about.....

and that's boyfriend/girlfriend shit...not someone u just fucking.....a wedding is deeper than a family cookout....

i ain't bring chicks to no social activities...my peoples ain't gotta meet who i'm fucking...and i meant that shit.....and i don't wanna go to your shit either....i'm just fucking you....i'm not tryign to take good care of you....i don't need your fmaily and friends looking at me like i'm really gonna be there for the long run
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I can respect that. I never looked at it from that angle
 
AP21 said:
it most certainly does

just like on Insecure...Tasha invites Lawrence to her family reunion...if you just trying to fuck, what message does that send to her that you she about to show you to her people, but all you trying to do is fuck?
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Listen my family used to say hope to see you again after I took women to events. There was no gaurantee. But again I was completely up front and honest.
 
AP21 said:
brah, you are saying what you feel is right by suggesting that everybody else is tripping lol

like i said, i know how this convo is gonna go...they are saving me keystrokes
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Chime in breh,

It aint even bout that wit me breh, just shooting the shits
 
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I am about to sound like Top Shotta@ BNE or like Cain but why does it seem like a man can bring a random woman to anything but if a woman invites you she wants to be in a relationship. @ Cain would say because women can't do what men do and @ BNE might want things to be equal. I have been the plus one for someone I wasn't serious with and I have had regular women attend weddings with me. If the person is comfortable with themselves and the relationship you have with them it isn't a big deal. As a matter of fact when my Idren got married he told me which one of the women I should bring because he was cool with her because she was a Raiders fan. ( all of this is before dating my wife now I am like LL)
 
Knock_Twice said:
I'm going, I don't see an issue, maybe it's just me breh, I'm not saying I'm right by any means, or yall are wrong, I'm just trying to find out why a person has to limit themselves on fun for the sake of this so call (leading someone on)
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You're not wrong. You just wanna live without boundaries. Find someone who shares the same views; as long as you and them have an understanding, it doesn't matter what others think about where you should and shouldn't attend together. "If you're cool, then I'm cool, then we're cool".
 
Aye @Bum From Bmore got a question.

Seeing how you were so up front in these chicks you dealt with, what percentage of those situations ended because the woman caught feelings or flipped up and got salty and stopped messing with you cuz it was reciprocated?
 
Bum From Bmore said:
bruh, if it's year 10, u gotta do more than flowers....

i mean you don't have to, but don't act surprised if she feels under appreciated....
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Fuck that nigga, shit cost me a buck 19

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She just want shit she can put on Facebook..
 
Blactivity said:
You're not wrong. You just wanna live without boundaries. Find someone who shares the same views; as long as you and them have an understanding, it doesn't matter what others think about where you should and shouldn't attend together. "If you're cool, then I'm cool, then we're cool".
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Blac ----><----

That's all I'm saying, that's it. You hit the mark.

I don't get these boundaries and rules and where not to bring a chick and where to bring her

If I bring her to the gas station, get her some skittles and then we off to hunt ducks, she's good, she won't catch feelings, but if I got to Chuckie Cheese, play air hockey with her son/daughter or go to her homegurl's wedding then we go together, Lol nah fuck that. I just like enjoying your company and you a cool chick.
 
Knock_Twice said:
Blac ----><----

That's all I'm saying, that's it. You hit the mark.

I don't get these boundaries and rules and where not to bring a chick and where to bring her

If I bring her to the gas station, get her some skittles and then we off to hunt ducks, she's good, she won't catch feelings, but if I got to Chuckie Cheese, play air hockey with her son/daughter or go to her homegurl's wedding then we go together, Lol nah fuck that. I just like enjoying your company and you a cool chick.
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Hold up now. I aint agreeing wit all that. If I had a child, aint no temporary toy hanging out wit me and my child like it's a big happy family.
 
Blactivity said:
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Hold up now. I aint agreeing wit all that. If I had a child, aint no temporary toy hanging out wit me and my child like it's a big happy family.
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This was a response to if the chick is inviting a dude to their child's b-day party.

If you as a dude go to that bday party, you and that chick go together or you leading her on.
 
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