JUDAH
OG
What bothers me is making me consider erratic emotions that I don't understand the depths of because I think surface emotionally. Then when I do consider that based on enlightenment by her, I begin to wonder outside of our thing. Do I do the same with others, and should I better myself to understand that?
Because my main goal is that we are on the same wavelength in that. That's where men thrive in excitement and women thrive on excitement. I'm trying to meet that same energy. And you are trying to manifest an energy to be met. That's where the clash comes in a long term relationship. They get better at manifesting that energy out of you, but your stuck on meeting that energy. To where it can become exhausting for the man.
Cause we instinctually fight first
I get It tho.
My wife is the same way. But the older I get and understand the glaring differences between man and woman, the betyer I understand the whole concept of the true purpose of marriage and what it should be.
Becoming "One" is, in a sense, and effort to "complete" the missing pieces separated because of the differences places on us by the gender we are born.
Women are without a doubt generally more emotionally driven in their actions. And men seem to have a more linear, logical thought process. Neither are a bad thing, but the key is balance. And when you spend enough time with your spouse, the regular things all couples go through can be enlightening when you both begin to work on your own flaws by reflecting on those things from the eyes of your partner....if that makes sense.