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i mean, it wasn't a house, but i moved out with my roomate in 2006...we had a rented townhouse.....

this nigga satyed there 5 more years.....then decided to stop paying rent at the beginning of 2011 and just move somewhere else....by march 2011 the money that was sent to collections was over 5k.......and since they couldn't get reach of him, guess who they contacted.....

5 years after i moved out...

5 years after me and homie stopped being cool

1 month before my wedding,
2 months before my first child being born...

i get a call from a collection agency talking about i owe like 5k cuz my name on a lease i signed in 2006



i dealt with it....but i'm saying this....

say u and dude don't work out.....yall pick up yall pieces and move on....
it would suck like shit if 10 years from now you tryna buy a home....it's 2027 and they looking at you like...

umnmmmmm you're like 100+ thousand defaulted on a previous real estate agreement u signed way back in 2018


life altering.......
 
Outbreak Vagina said:
Why? Do you need to call me so you can speak freely?
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I know me and you don't particularly care for each other but you making a mistake. 6 months in and you're talking about having a baby, moving in together, you don't want to work so all the burden will be on him. What part of this you think is ok.

You going to school and having a baby so which one doesn't get your full attention.
 
this why i bought my wife pink boxing gloves 2 years ago.....

u wanna work out?? let's go in the backyard and do 8 3 min rounds....

i got weights for the legs in the basement....

 
I Eat Smelly Vagina said:
I know me and you don't particularly care for each other but you making a mistake. 6 months in and you're talking about having a baby, moving in together, you don't want to work so all the burden will be on him. What part of this you think is ok.

You going to school and having a baby so which one doesn't get your full attention.
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I didn't say I don't want to work, the program doesn't allow you to do anything outside of the opportunities they offer you.

I didn't say I wanted to pop out kids asap, I said I wanted kids while I do the program.

Moving in together is an option/idea, I didn't clarify that part so I'll take the blame on that.

We're both just tryna figure out the next step....
 
real talk, my wife was in one of the best shapes of her life before she got pregnant again from the boxing work outs we was doing........





shieeed....if we keeping it all the way G, that's how she fucked around and got pregnant.....

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jazzy it's like this..
forever...is forever...is forever.....

you don't have to rush forever......if it's real, and it's really forever... everything will happen on it's own time.....

you happy, but don't let that get ahead of making responsible decisions.....

i clearly remember wanting to move down to VA while my lady was in college, cuz i ain't wanna do the long distance thing....i was even going as far as applying to be a cop down there, cuz i knew they always hiring cops in high crime areas.......

i was literally one call aways from an interview i just had to take care of a debt on my credit....

when someone told me the same shit....

they was like if u and her gonna really be together forever, there's not point in moving while she's still in school.... just wait till she graduate and yall figure out what to do together......yea it was like a year down the road... but if we really gonna be together forever...what' waiting one year?

and waiting that one year was nuffin

had i been impatient, i might still be a cop in VA somewhere, and who knows what kinda direction that coulda sent my life into.....


especially given how much has been going on lately in the past 8 years or so......my temperament is horrible for a job like that.....

that's just me tho......

but i do recommend slowing down and not trying to get too ahead of yourself
 
BNE said:
a friend of mine has been with her husband like 9 yrs, married for 3. she had more savings than he did when they were engaged, but he had a well paying job and she was back in school. she couldn't be on the mortgage because the lender would've given them less due to her being a stuent, so it's all in his name. the deposit was mostly her. they have a great marriage and no divorce on the horizon but she still feels a lil uneasy about the fact that everything she has is in a house that her name isn't on.

IJS.
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Why does it matter who's name is on stuff. My wife has her business my name isn't on it. I have my business and her name is on some and not others. Her name isn't on the car and she doesn't drive but she owns the car. I believe all that stuff is trivial. Ours is Ours.
 
unless the doctor tell you that you are unable to have children, dont rush that shit

dont be that chick that feel like she gotta be young to have kids so that you can be the "young hip mama"...

focus on ya career for now...get YOURself straight first...dont bring a child into this situation while things are unsettled
 
@BNE . Top Shotta I am supposed to trust this woman with being the mother of my child and then worry about what my name is on? That doesn't make sense to me. Again I waited a long time to choose a wife and a co parent.
 
But again maybe because she knows Lil Dread will always be taken care of and she has enough of her own that we don't have those kind of issues.
 
BNE said:
I didn't assume the worst, I just had no idea what was being conveyed. I actually liked the project when I learned more.

I was ranting about someone pitching an idea in a way that doesn't do it justice and can lead to it being overlooked.

I've had the same issue myself, where I've had good ideas but my presentation was flakey or didn't really give anyone an idea of wtf I was talking about.

I was quite literally talking about communicating your ideas in a way that people can understand what you mean, so that you or your work doesn't get overlooked. skips the step of losing the people who don't have time to get things clarified.
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I was talking about relationships not the project. But I enjoyed this answer anyway.
 
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