strange family dynamic growing up.

[roi baptiste]

i grew up with both of my parents.... my father would work long ahifts...... my mother would deal out the majority of my ass whoopings/punishments... can anybody else relate?

 

[Allah_U_Akbar]

You’re being sarcastic, right?

 

[Allah_U_Akbar]

There’s nothing strange about that.

 

[Allah_U_Akbar]

Unless you’re talking about the beatings your mom delivered.

That’s kinda looked down upon these days.

 

[Allah_U_Akbar]

You can ‘t really beat your kids nowadays.

 

[roi baptiste]

You’re being sarcastic, right?

no not at all.... my father worked long shifts 6 sometimes 7 days a week... i dealt with my mother alot more in house... she handled things more because my father worked so much.

 

[Allah_U_Akbar]

OK, but what you described was kinda a “traditional” family dynamic.

Nothing strange about it.

 

[Allah_U_Akbar]

Maybe in today’s climate it would be considered strange??

 

[roi baptiste]

OK, but what you described was kinda a “traditional” family dynamic.

Nothing strange about it.

in most households (with 2 stable parents) the father usually handles the punishments is the point i'm trying to make..

 

[B_A]

Maybe in today’s climate it would be considered strange??

Maybe he means his mom was the "just wait til your mother gets home" kinda thing and not the other way around, strange part?

 

[Allah_U_Akbar]

in most households (with 2 stable parents) the father usually handles the punishments is the point i'm trying to make..

Oh.

My pops pretty much never put hands on us.

Mama dished out most of the ass whoopins.

I think my pops was smart enough to know he woulda probably seriously hurt somebody... He had a real bad temper.

I thought most kids got beatings from their mothers.

 

[ImaInfluenza]

:Pathetic:

 

[mryounggun]

Homie is Haitian. It doesn't shock me that he thinks this is out of the ordinary. And that not a diss to Haitians at all.

 

[Englishdude]

You’re mother handed out the punishment and you have an underlying issue with women going off other posts you’ve made.

step into my office and have a seat on the couch.

 

[King Freeman]

You’re mother handed out the punishment and you have an underlying issue with women going off other posts you’ve made.

step into my office and have a seat on the couch.

Didn't you walk in on your mom topping mans on Christmas morning?

If you ask me you 2 need to sit down on that seat together. It's enough room.

 

[Englishdude]

Didn't you walk in on your mom topping mans on Christmas morning?

If you ask me you 2 need to sit down on that seat together. It's enough room.

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my past traumas didn’t manifest into a hatred of women tho.